Im very confused. I slept with a guy and about a week laetr he told me that he went to the doctor and was told he had chlamydia. he thought that i must have given it to him because he had slept with me a week ago and i was his last sexual partner. also, the last time he had sex before me was months ago. i got tested and found out i DONT have it! how is this possible? is it possible that he got it from me even tho i dont have it. and also, even if he had it while he slept wit me, how did i not get it from him??
2007-02-19 00:15:44 · 9 answers · asked by ckgirl_sa 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Dear...stop having sex..or get yourself fixed....you do not need a child....you cannot catch a disease from someone unless that person has that disease...this is not magic...did you screw harry potter? Get educated and get protected.
2007-02-19 00:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I will say congrats on not catching Chlamydia, however please realize how lucky you are. You SHOULD have caught it. No, he didn't get the disease from you. You can not get an STD from someone unless they have that STD, so you can rest assured that if you do NOT have Chlamydia now nor did you at the time that you slept with this guy, you didnt give it to him. You said that his last sexual partner (other than you) was months ago? That makes sense. Chlamydia can be inside the body, even though you have no signs or symptoms. There is a good possibility that he has had it for a while, and just never knew about it until he got tested. So I hope this helped, and I hope you'll repeatedly go and get tested to make sure that it wasnt just a mistake misdiagnosis. Best wishes and good luck.
2007-02-19 15:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by lonesomelilme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have chlamydia you can't possibly have given it to someone else.
Basically you were lucky. He had chlamydia when you slept with him, but you didn't catch it - in the same way as if you're exposed to the virus that causes a cold, you may be lucky enough not to catch a cold. And so what if the last time he had sex was months ago? Chlamydia has very few obvious symptoms, so he could easily have been carrying it all that time and not known.
Basically, though, what this means is that you need to be careful. You could catch chlamydia (which can cause women to become infertile), or something worse, if you have unprotected sex.
Best wishes.
2007-02-19 08:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Marzipan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me offer one other possible explaination. Years ago I had sex with a woman friend of mine, a few days later I experienced a slight burning during urination and a little discharge from my penis. I went to the doctor who said it was a PROBABLE chlamydia infection. I told my friend who then got tested and was negative for chlamydia. Later I read about what they call Non specific ureathritis, just some other sort of possible infection that we may have exchanged. I suggest that you and BF both visit the same doctor get it cleared up so that you will no longer have to worry about it and get on with your lives
2007-02-19 16:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he got it from someone else he was having unprotected sex w! He probably had it for months many STD's dont produce any major symptoms in men for long periods of time if ever!
2007-02-19 08:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you infect a person with HIV if you don't have it? the answer is NO! He had it for a while and the symptoms just started showing now. You did not, I repeat, did not give it to him. And please stop having unprotected sex, better yet just stop fornicating.
2007-02-19 09:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys and men don't tell the truth, he might have had it for a long time and not have know about it, also he's not going to tell you about the other girls he's been with , not and risk losing you
2007-02-19 10:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by koleary388 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible he had it and you just were lucky in not getting it
Your immune system was strong enough at that moment who knows
2007-02-19 10:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by jgold49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - you have to have it to give it. I think he may be lying to you for some reason.
2007-02-19 08:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by KANGA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋