CHLAMYDIA (what should i do?)?

Question

I was assualted by someone a year ago and I contracted chlamydia I was intimate w/my b/f during the time this happened and I know that I have given it to him. How do I tell him he needs to get tested Iam so scared of the way he would react even though its not my fault. I never told him about the inncident b/c Iam ashamed and I try everyday not to relive the nightmare. I just dont want him to leave me. Please help what should I do?

Answer 1

wtf a year ago? why would he be mad if you were raped? i'd be more mad that you let me walk around with chlamydia for a year without telling me.

Answer 2

Not to seem blunt or anything, you said you were assaulted a year ago.. and you were with your boyfriend then... you guys have been together for at least a year right? One, he must of had had it for a while now, chlamydia is curable but in order to get rid of it without complications you need to catch it in the beginning. As soon as you found out you should have told him. If you guys have been together for a year and are sleeping together, you have a responsibility to each other... YOU NEED to tell him. If you tell him the situation, he should understand, if not he is not Worth keeping.

Answer 3

You do realize that Chlamydia is curable, right? So, I am not sure why you have had it for a year......You both need to get checkups and get on meds, if you test positive for it. Although it is hard and difficult, you have to tell your BF what is going on. It is not fair to him for you to keep this information. If he cares for you, everything will work out. If he leaves, so what! You can and will move on with your life. If you were able to survive sexual assault, you can get over a breakup.

Answer 4

First you need to get a pap to see how severe the std is..After your Dr receives the results & prescribes you she will also give you a prescription for your bf..It will be hard to tell your bf but the truth in this case is better than him not knowing at all..Tell him your sorry & scared but that if you & if take the prescription as taken it should cure the STD..goodluck

Answer 5

Tell him in front of someone that supports you.Your Dr,could help maybe.He will be tested,right?..Sister,cousin? Just get it over with,it will eat you inside and cause all kinds of stress,and you watch,it will come out in aches and pains..good luck
The longer you don't come clean about the incident,that was not your fault,the harder it will be. You did not know,you did not do it to him on purpose,like could have been done to you.

Answer 6

The medication is Zythromax. But I think you AND your boyfriend need to see a doctor and maybe a therapist. If he is aware that you were attacked, he could be VERY understanding and forgiving. Honest is the best policy, in most cases. But sometimes you need to give the truth in small dosis.

Answer 7

You need to find a way to tell him. This is a serious disease and he deserves treatment. I think he'd be more likely to leave if he finds out you are hiding this.
Plus if you don't tell him he will give it back to you, so if you can't do it for him then do it for you

Answer 8

you need to tell him and both go to the clinic! it can lead to so many problems and if you have had it for a year its likely you have got problems with fertility and pelvic inflammatory disease it can also cause many other problems. Go to the clinic asap!!!

Answer 9

you should just be honest with him its always better that way.
you should see a dr for helping you get over the trama, you need help for that. if he really cares about you he will stay by yourside.

hope it all works out for you.

Answer 10

How do you know for certain you have chlamyia? If you do have it, go see a doctor. It is curable for you and your bf. they will give you an antibotic

Answer 11

tell him straight up. i feel bad for you but you need to tell him. just because you were assaulted doesnt make it right to infect your boyfriend and not tell him.