My friend and & her husband invited me to their house for the first time since we met and (supposedly) we were all looking forward to it. I was at the doctor last week to get something checked out when I decided to get all the std's tests done. When I got home, I told my friend and she accused me of getting the tests done cause that meant i wanted to sleep with her husband when that was NOT the case. I did it cause I wasn't sure their stance on how they would feel about someone with -something- in their home. She said, "even if you had something, we would never have known." That's not the point, - I - would have known. Some of my friends are saying it was odd, some are saying it was no surprise i creeped them out by doing it and telling them. I didn't think it was that big a deal until they both verbally beat me down about the "real" reason (which they both assumed was to sleep with him). That wasn't why at all. Please help. Neither of them want to talk to me again.
2007-02-02 09:22:22 · 5 answers · asked by jeblala 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
First, I'm going to start this out with my opinion and say that both your friend and her husband are a tab bit immature. The woman seems to have trust issues with her husband, considering the first thing that came to her mind was that you wanted to sleep with him. And the husband... he just seems a little too proud, assuming you want to sleep with him. If I were in your shoes, I would be laughing AT them for being so ridiculous. But, if you feel they are important to you, I would just talk to them. If they dont listen, there really isnt much else that you can do. I hope things work out for you. Good luck.
2007-02-02 09:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by lonesomelilme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your friend is having relationship problems with her husband. And she shouldn't accuse you of wanting to sleep with her husband. She should be telling you how proud she is of you for getting it done to keep yourself healthy and aware. Leave them in the dust and find some friends who can support you. They're not the boss of you.
2007-02-02 11:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by inquirygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, First of all going to the Dr. was your personal business and you didnot have to mention that. Second of all the friend must be very insecure to think that that was your purpose of going the the Dr. She needs help. To end this comment get a new friend.
2007-02-02 09:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to look for new friends. Next time, don't tell them your medical history. It's not their business.
Practice safe sex!!!
2007-02-02 09:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just insecure.
2007-02-07 00:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋