I'm planning on having sex with my boyfriend for the first time pretty soon. I've been on the pill for about a month. We're both virgins and he hasnt been with any other girls sexually. So why is it bad to have sex without a condom if we know we both dont have any sort of STD?
2007-02-02 02:19:40 · 13 answers · asked by willy 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
You can have, but ONLY if you have proof that he has gotten himself tested for being free from STDs
2007-02-02 02:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, birth control isn't even effective until you've been on it for at least a couple months. Next, even if he's a virgin, it doesn't mean he hasn't had oral sex. Therefore, he could still have an STD. Not to mention, guys lie more than you think. Sex is a big thing even if you don't think it is. You're going to remember your first time for the rest of your life. Think of the results of having sex with him. Whether you're "in love" or not, he could still end up hurting you..just warning you of the possibilities. I regret my first time and I wish other girls didn't have to make the same mistake as I did.
Have you seen how many responses you've been getting? There's obviously many things wrong with your situation but it's still your choice. Please use a condom though whether you're on birth control or not. Wait until you know you're ready. If you really were ready, you wouldn't be asking this question.
2007-02-03 03:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Katie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if it is proven that neither of you have an std, then the next main thing to worry about is pregnancy. There is no safe time of the month to not get pregnant. Another thing is trust....do you believe your boyfriend is a virgin? Does he believe you? I know that may seem harsh and a bit unimportant, but people lie and you never really know if someone is free of std's. As for the birth control pills, they are not 100 percent effective. There are all kinds of things that can interfere and make them not work. My suggestion is to have him wear a condom and just get used to it.
2007-02-02 03:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by babyj248 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both virgins and or tested to be clean of STD's then its fine as long as you are on the pill. Where people get into trouble is they are not on the pill or their partner has a STD. As you start to date other people then wearing a condom is a must to protect yourself unless you are in long term relationships and you have both been tested and are clear. But unless the relationship is momogamous it wont work. Stay safe have fun
2007-02-02 02:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
AIDS - Can kill you
HIV - You have it forever
HERPIES - The gift that keeps on giving
PREGNANCY - Goes away after 18 years
How do you know he hasn't been with other girls? Because "He" told you?
And even if you both are STD free, there is still the pregnancy thing. One drop of sperm has millions of little swimmers just trying to get to them eggs of yours.
The only way to keep them away is to use a condome or not have sex.
2007-02-02 02:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by smjohnson55 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It quite relies upon. Unprotected intercourse with anybody with and std is risky, yet diverse style of intercourse asociated with categories of sexualities make you greater possibly to get an std. Statistcly, on the instant female female are the main possibly to get an std. Anel intercourse with absolutely everyone seems to be risky if unprotected because of the fact the anus is stuffed with micro organism, and the guy entering into ought to get a sti whether their substantial different does no longer have one. the wonderful guess is to attend untill you're waiting and to apply protection.
2016-11-24 19:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls that I've been with have said they don't feel comfortable having unprotected sex until they've been on the pill for a few months. Better safe than sorry, right?
Sex with a condom is still sex. Still feels wonderful, if you're ready for it and care about who you're with.
2007-02-02 02:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by MikeTX 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to think the same way. There is pregnacy, and also the guy can be lieing. My best friend was a virgin and so was the guy, so he said. A few months later she discovered she had clymadia. So always have protected sex and have him get tested.
2007-02-02 03:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by *GlensBayB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why?
here is one example most know.
1. aids was first found in our country , because of lack of understanding it was assumed to be only because of a life style choice.
2. even with the ability to diagnose they haad yet to find it's origin.
3.again assumptions led to an infectiious blood supply, only because we did not anticipate how long the hiv virus could remain undetected.
the rest of this explaination can be seen as an example to you, of even what might not be viewed as a dangerous or obnoxious disease, still might hold the potential to occur when you would least want to expect it.
the answer to your question is if you have a choice to prevent what you are asking, protect yourself first. the one best way to do this IS with
condoms.
2007-02-02 02:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by just_1_cat2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case it is safe,if only it is true.Are you sure on this.You use condom to aviod pregnancy and diseases.
2007-02-05 22:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by batu5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋