but we wraped it up. But i have not told him that i have it. We have been dating for i month now. & i really do care about him. We had sex when we were really drunk. but i want to know how i can tell him that i have it without him getting mad or leaving me. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!???
2007-02-01 14:56:52 · 12 answers · asked by rachel m 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
You have a RESPONSIBILITY to Tell Him!! What if it was HIV... would You be asking this same question?
2007-02-01 15:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the first thing Condom companies say on their commericals and on the box states that is you still have the risk of spreading an STD even while wearing the condom and if I am not mistaken it says it does not protect against STDS but I may be wrong.So even if you "wrapped it up" you could have spread the disease to him now. You need to tell him Immediately so if he does indeed have it it can be treated fast and so the condition doesn't worsen. The way how you can tell him is call him and invite him over to your house because this news cannot wait and he needs to hear it pronto. I hope he doesn't have this STD but this is just a little note to tell you to be more careful of your choices.
2007-02-01 23:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by KewlieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care for the guy you should tell him. Treatment of STDs should involve both parties. If you had unprotected sex definitely he would contact the disease or maybe you got it from him. It doesn't matter...What's important is that BOTH of you should be treated. Have him tested just to make sure... It will hurt him and maybe he would get angry but it's important that you guys get treated.
2007-02-01 23:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie, I understand why you didn't tell him. If he really loves you, he'll understand why you didn't tell him. Because you were scared. You need to tell him whether this relationship is going far or not. I don't want to break your heart but just think if this guy had hepers and didn't tell you? You would be furious. so good luck!
2007-02-02 12:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by *GlensBayB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
genital herpes is a skin contion so you don't get by body fluid so me will be brakeing out soon. crabs is hair contion comdoms dont work even 1% on eighter they only work 99% on pregance and AIDS. Telling him is up to you.
2007-02-02 00:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by derek48316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know this relationship is going further - you have to tell him now - waiting will make it worse - if he really cares about you, he will understand and be conscious of wearing a condom (if he doesn't have it already) - - oh, not from you but someone else.
good luck
2007-02-01 23:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how it spreads. Knock it off! What if you slept with someone with AIDS. Would you still want to be with them after the fact?
2007-02-01 23:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the duty to tell him. Do it and let the chips fall where they may.
2007-02-01 23:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are that scared u can always ask the health department to contact him and more than likely they will
2007-02-01 23:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by dollfaced.lush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
that sucks for him
hopefully he's not infected
2007-02-01 22:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋