I am in a relationship for 9 months now and he is a very jelious person and he thinks i cheat on him everyday while he is at work, and i dont, he is the only person i have been with. I am pregnant with his child, and i went to the doctor and found out that i had warts, i am not the type of person to have multiple sex partners, so i know its not from me. I am scared to tell him, because all he is going to do is turn it around and blame it on me. I am not sure if he has been messing around or its from his past! i am more concered about the saftey of my baby, but i would like to know if they can get worse if they are not treated, cause there is not much you can do while pregnant? I just need some advise!!!
2007-01-31 04:19:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Consult good gynecologist forthwith.
2007-01-31 04:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sweetheart you should leave him if he thinks that you cheat on him everyday while he is at work. You do not need the stress and neither does your unborn child.
Second there are other treatments that can be used for the HPV virus during pregnancy. I have provided a website below that may help you. But if you google HPV + pregnancy then you will find a lot of the information that you will find useful.
Lastlly, I just wanted to add that when you can see the genital warts on your gentials it is recommended that you use condoms during intercourse. However, I don't think that your boyfriend will take this very well. So, like I said I would leave him. Especially since he gave this to you and he is your first.
2007-01-31 15:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by white_pussy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most woman who are pregnat get warts. When being pregnant you're body's going through changes and you're immune system is low...therefore warts.
Most women have HPV and have no symptoms of it, so you could have had it from you're partner and not had any warts. Most men are carriers and don't have any symptoms nor warts. If he did have it he probably didn't even know it. Only 1% of men have warts.
On another note: If he doesn't trust you, why are you having this baby with him? Why are you even in a relationship with him. Having this baby is not going to help the trust in you're relationship.
Need to really sit down and talk to him about it. VERY CALM! Educate youreself on the virus and explain to him. HPV Low risk (which is Genital warts) is not dangerous unless not taken care of.
Also if they become large while pregnant and can't get rid off, then most likely you'll have a C-section. Most like you're child will not contract HPV.
Keep going to you're doctor and you'll be okay.
Good luck!
2007-01-31 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to your doctor about how to get rid of them. he may have them and not have told you. if he is jealous there is nothing you can do to change him, but it prob came from him and he already knows it. the thing is you may have had it for a long time now, but since you are pregnant you are more stressed and that makes the warts come out. just try to talk to your dr. there is a way where they can burn the area where the warts are and they will most likely not come back visually. sounds like you cant talk to him which is a bad position to be in but you should try to keep the communication line between you and him. hope you have someone else to talk to
2007-01-31 12:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Juillet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been faithful then have him tested and if he has it as well and you have been faith and not been with any other person than you will be fine. He seems to me that he has been cheating on you or he has had it and not told you. You can't be scared and you must talk to him. You are about to have a kid honey. This is the kid family. The father must know about this and he must fess up. Before this is not worth you torturing yourself and he doesn't have a kid anymore.
2007-01-31 13:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit him down work him into it start with things like you know that i would never try to hurt you or you know I love you and would not ever cheat on you tell him because if he has to find out on his own it will make your relationship go bad
2007-01-31 12:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lyric H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to talk to him, would you rather be scared to tell him than lose your baby? well sit down and talk to him and tell him what he means to you and what the baby means to you and tell him that you are holding HIS child and no one else's. well just be honest and tell him what you think is best, b/c me and my girlfriend have the same problem and we have been together for 10 months, and everyday scares me that i could lose her, i guess you boyfriend is just scared to lose you and he is turning that fear into anger. That is just my opinion
2007-01-31 12:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Miguel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont have them treated you can kill your baby. if you have a natural birth then you could cause serious injury by infecting your baby with what you now have. so be prepaired to have a c-section. you need to let him know and find out if he has been faithfull or if this is something from his past that he either didnt know about or kept from you.
2007-01-31 12:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by colera667 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before I found religion I was unfaithfull to my wife. When I was I always accussed her cuz I thought everyone was a cheater. my point is when some one has deep trust issues its cuz they cant be trusted. he maybe is a cheater, especially with the wart situation. pay a hooker to try and seduce him to find out if he is faithfull.
2007-01-31 12:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by jake s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im very sorry dat u have cabs but u need treatment away 4 ur babys help
2007-01-31 12:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by serina g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋