people think im straight but im having my first gay experience
2007-01-29 14:08:29 · 19 answers · asked by super2better 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Oral sex is safe
2007-01-29 14:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by gone 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The odds are the same as if you were having oral sex with a female. If the guy has had other sexual partners he could have an STD. Even if he seems clean there are still chances. Herpes can be dorminat in a persons body for years. If you are really serious about this other person you should talk to him about it or both of ya'll get tested. You can go to your doctors office and tell him you want to be tested for STD's and they should be able to do it for you.
2007-01-29 14:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The odds are better than you putting one cartridge/shell into a .44 magnum, spinning the cylinder, and putting it to your head while playing a game of russian roulette. It's a common worry, because today's society values pleasure so much...and along with pleasure, comes social injustices as peer pressure and such. So have yourself tested at a free clinic, or your personal physician. Chances are that if you are infected, there's a medicine for it-especially if you catch it early enough.
God Bless,
Dr. G., Ev.G.
2007-01-31 04:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by djdjr01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you are having same sex feelings then you should not keep it in secret. One it isnt fair to you and two it isnt fair to others.
Since you actually gave head to a male by definition you are gay. You just have to come to terms with the facts. You were obviously attracted to him. You have no reason to be scared of being gay, and I don't think you are. You are probably just afraid of coming out with it. The truth will set you free! (so they say)
2007-01-29 15:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is alot of support out there at your local gay and lesbian center. You should be able to find them in the phone book. There are many people there who can help you through this time. They can help you figure out if you really are gay, and educate you on safe sex. They are non-judgmental and kind.
Don't be scared, be safe! Good luck!!!
2007-01-29 14:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know a lot more about someone before you go sticking their possibly infected body parts in your mouth.
Know them well enough where you feel comfortable finding out if he has a desease of anykind, and he doesnt mind either.
I know you get horny but have some common sense and be safe. Your life and health are not worth risking just to get your rocks off.
2007-01-29 14:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your sexuality is not in question.
What is important?? Safe sex (not transferance of bodily fluids) and that INCLUDES oral. Just because you don't see the fluid does not mean that it's safe.
Are you willing to risk your life?? ... Are you willing to risk the life of others? Educate yourself on safer sex because your life DOES depend on it.
2007-01-29 14:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Miss_Deb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An astounding 52% of men say that they have had a gay experience but are not gay.
2007-01-29 14:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by rrs0090 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well like every guy almost has a gay experience in thier life doesnt mean they liked it or turned gay
2007-01-29 14:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time you have ANY kind of sex with someone you don't know well, you're playing RUSSIAN ROULETTE with your health.
To quote a great sage: STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES.
Just hope there wasn't a bullet in that chamber.
2007-01-29 14:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋