I really need some advice to help my son, who is 21, and just found out that he has BOTH types of herpes......

Question

He lives in Florida, I am in Texas. He called me crying today, said he had just been tested and they say he has both types of herpes.

First of all, how many different types of herpes are there?

Also, he said that they told him that the medication (Valtrex?) is going to cost him $175/month, but he has no health insurance and can't afford that. Are there generaic types of drugs, or alternative therapies to treat and keep herpes under control?

I'm sick with worry about him. He has been with his GF for a while, and contracted it from her, but she didn't even realize she had it until recently (or so she says). He's very depressed, thinks his life is basically shot all to hell now, and I don't know what to do to help him.

Any information, experiences or advice would be so greatly appreciated, and thank you in advance for your willingness to share what you know with this clueless mother who loves her son so very much.....

Answer 1

Hi There

Here is correct way to approach this (my opinion).

Herpes refers to a class of viral infections of both a sexual and nonsexual nature. There are actually over 70 different types of herpes, all of which are caused by one or more herpes viruses. Overall, herpes viruses are very common in the population at large. In fact, some health experts estimate that 90 percent of all Americans are infected by one or more strains of herpes virus.

Herpes viruses, once they gain a foothold in the body, can remain dormant for years before symptoms manifest, usually after being triggered by stress to the immune system. In addition, symptoms can come and go, and even when symptoms are no longer noticeable, it does not necessarily mean that the viruses have been eradicated.

Types of Herpes
Although there are more than 70 known herpes viruses, the two most common types of herpes are herpes simplex 1 (HSV1) and herpes simplex 2 (HSV2), or genital herpes. Herpes simplex 2 is a sexually transmitted disease, or STD, while herpes simplex 1 is often present in the body simply due to a weakened immune system, not as a result of sexual contact. Both types are very widespread among the population of the United States.

Cause
Herpes is caused by one of more than 70 infectious herpes viruses. Outbreaks caused by herpes are most often triggered by physical or emotional stress that suppresses immune function. Nutritional deficiencies can also increase the risk of contracting herpes.

Quick Action Plan for Herpes


1. Emphasize fresh, organic foods, with plenty of non citrus fruits and vegetables, complex carbohydrates, free-range, organic meats and poultry, wild-caught fish, and an abundance of pure filtered water.

2. Avoid all commercial, processed, and nonorganic food, as well as alcohol, coffee, sugars, artificial sweeteners, preservatives, food dyes, milk and dairy products, and wheat and wheat products.

3. Avoid all arginine-rich foods, including all nuts, sunflower and sesame seeds, coconut, chocolate, wheat and wheat byproducts, soy, lentils, oats, corn, rice, barley, tomatoes, and squash.

4. Be screened for food allergies.

5. Supplement with vitamin A, B-complex, vitamin B5, vitamin B6, vitamin C, zinc, adrenal glandular extract, quercitin, and the amino acid lysine.

6. Drink plenty of organic, fresh-squeezed carrot, celery and beet juice.

7. Apply salves of aloe vera gel or calendula cream.
Hot baths if you can tolerate them, followed with a short cold bath or sitz bath. Do this daily.

8. A useful herbal remedy for herpes is to combine tinctures of Echinacea, goldenseal, nettle and Siberian ginseng in equal measures. Take half a teaspoon three times a day to boost immune function.

9 Take precautions when you are in an outbreak to avoid spreading the virus to others.
To ensure you are following the most effective treatment plan, work with a qualified holistic health professional.

Prevention Guidelines

As with all sexually transmitted diseases, the most effective response to chlamydia is prevention. To avoid herpes, do the following:

Be careful about choosing a sex partner and find out about his or her health and sexual history before engaging in a sexual relationship. Have sex only if the person has no apparent signs of infection and is willing to assure your protection during sexual intimacy. Be prepared to talk and inquire about past experiences. Be direct and persistent. Make conversations about health a natural part of the sexual relationship.

Limit the number of people you have sex with. The risk of contracting an STD rises exponentially in direct relation to how many sexual partners you have.

Avoid sex altogether if your partner exhibits open lesions or swelling on his or her body.

Always practice safe sex. Men should always use a latex condom, especially when engaging in sex with someone new. As an alternative, women can consider the use of a latex female condom. When engaging in oral sex, use a latex dental dam. Long-term, monogamous sexual partners should also use some form of protective contraceptive unless planning a pregnancy.

Avoid swallowing semen, as it acts as an immune suppressant and thus can increase the risk of STDs caused by infectious microorgamisms.

Avoid anal sex, especially without protection.

Urinate after you have sexual intercourse in order to help clean the urethra and prevent infection. This applies to both men and women.

Have an annual checkup to be screened for STDs that you may not know you have.

If you know that you have a sexually transmitted disease, be responsible. Inform your partner and insist that he or she be examined and treated as well. Follow the treatment regimen that your physician prescribes as completely as possible, and always use protection whenever you engage in sex.

Best of health to both of you

Answer 2

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Answer 4

This site might save you some money:
To treat genital herpes it is usually taken twice a day for 5 days.
http://www.inhousepharmacy.com/infections/valcivir.html
It is a reliable pharmacy.

There are 2 types of herpes: 1 & 2
Type 1 is the one that causes common cold sores, just about
everyone has that.
Type 2 is the genital kind, but they can actually both be in either place.

You can reassure your son by telling him that 1/4 of adults have genital herpes.

Answer 5

I got clinically diagnosed with genital herpes (type 2) about 3 years ago, whilst I was still attending college and had a mindless one-night stand. I realize lots of people say this, but I swear I had never done that sort of thing before. I just made a huge mistake that one time and suddenly it seemed like I was going to have to live with the implications for my entire life. The hardest part was feeling I could never date men again. In the end, who wants to go out with a girl who has sores around her "you know what" area? But since a friend shared this movie https://tr.im/gLdke everything changed.

Not only was I able to remove all remnants of the herpes virus from my system in less than 3 weeks, but I was also able to begin dating again. I even met the man of my dreams and I'm so fortunate to write that just last week, in front of everyone in a crowded restaurant, he got down on one knee and proposed to me! This method provided me the opportunity to be happy and experience true love again. Now I hope that I can help others too by sharing this story.

Answer 6

Try to relax; herpes is not a death sentence. I have a good friend who has herpes and he lives a very normal life. His life is not shot and you can help with prayers and support. He's an adult and will handle this just fine because he has to; if he needs someone to talk to be there and be strong.

Answer 7

Herpes Overview** Sorry this is so long .**
What is Herpes?
Herpes is a common viral infection. It causes oral herpes (cold sores or fever blisters), and genital herpes (genital sores or sores below the waist).

There are two herpes simplex viruses:
• Herpes Simplex Type 1 (HSV-1)
• Herpes Simplex Type 2 (HSV-2)

These viruses look identical under the microscope, and either type can infect the mouth or genitals. Most commonly, however, HSV-1 occurs above the waist, and HSV-2 below.

The body's natural defense system is called the "Immune Responses". Whenever herpes attacks the immune system, the body fights back against this menace. As the battle grows more intense, there are heavy losses by both the herpes virus and the immune system. This causes the body to be less able to defend itself from attacks by other viruses. For those very reasons, a herpes patient should try to keep the herpes virus under control at all times.
There are many medications out there and a few so called cures
and natural meds .check them out but ask a doctor befor useing any of it .
Hope this helps you .
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There are two widespread attitudes about herpes:

Herpes does not effect any other part of the body.
There is nothing I can do to keep from having an outbreak.
Both attitudes are wrong!

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Remember...

You are not alone. Herpes is estimated to affect some 80 million people in America. At least one in five adults in the United States has genital herpes.


Get more information. The better informed you are about herpes, the easier it will be to manage.


Give yourself the best possible chance to limit recurrences by maintaining general good health and keeping stress to a minimum.


Take care of the affected skin area. Keep the area dry and clean during outbreaks to help healing.


Avoid physical contact with the area from the time of the first symptoms (tingling, itching, burning) until all sores are completely healed, not just scabbed-over. Also be aware of possible shedding or "asymptomatic transmission", even after the sores have healed.

When properly used, latex condoms help reduce your risk of spreading or getting herpes.


Prevent self-infection to other areas of your body. Wash your hands with soap and water if you touch a sore. Better yet, don't touch the sores.


Prospective parents: If either mother or father has genital herpes, or any of the mother's previous sexual partners had genital herpes, tell your doctor about it.


It is possible to get genital herpes from cold sores.

Women with genital herpes: Don't skip your annual Pap smear.


Inform yourself about herpes. For many, diagnosis with herpes can mean a time of confusion, anger, fear and frustration. For many, it seems there is no place to turn for help in dealing with the sensitive aspects of herpes infection. There is help available.


Increase your intake of L-Lysine and decrease the amount of arginine in your diet.


Herpes is spread by direct contact.




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Answer 8

You really need to do it legally through the court. I know if you denied me my child, we'd be going through a very lengthy court battle. And I'd be sure to let the judge be aware that you were holding my kid hostage in exchange for money. As for whether or not he has rights... you've been treating him as if he's the father, whether or not he's on the birth certificate. You've implied through your actions that he is the child's legal father. Keeping his kid away from him now would probably also not look very good in the eyes of the court. All of that said. You're using your child as a pawn. Your child deserves to know and spend time with his father, unless the father is abusive or otherwise unfit to be around a child. This hurts the dad, sure, but most of all it hurts your kid. A 17 month old child knows his father and feels the loss. Is that your intention?

Answer 9

There are 2 types, cold sores & VD. The antiviral meds just decrease the # of out breaks. This isn't a deadly disease. It is easily transmitted sexually. Males are able to see the problem sooner for obvious reasons, i.e. external genitals. It is possible for females to not realize depending on the severity of the out break.

Answer 10

I know that males are the carrier of the herpies virus and it does lie dormant, so you would not know that you have it. If passed to the female, she will have blisters in the vaginal region that can be treated with antibiotics and may never get the again. Stress may bring them out also. Hope this is of some help.

Answer 11

I feel bad for your son. My goodness! I learned in sex ed that there are 2 types. Oral & genital. That's SAD! His girl was cheating on him. He can ask his doctor about how to go about getting health insurance. His doctor or a local hospital should be able to help him, or if they can't, then they should know how to redirect him to someone who knows how to help him get him. I am angry about this situation. I feel so bad for him & I pray that he gets better. I'm mad at his girlfriend.