I cheated on my girlfriend and got genital herpes. Now I don't know how to approach her about this. I know there's no cure for herpes so there's no point in telling her. I'm thinking of just dumping her without saying anything. What would be the point in telling her?
2007-01-24 10:52:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
first off your a scumbag.
2nd tell her.
2007-01-24 11:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The point in telling her is that you would be a complete and total loser if you don't. Not only that, but if she has it and doesn't know, she'll pass it on to other people. How could you be so self-centered and insensitive.
Just tell her. If you care so little about the relationship that you'd be willing to break up with her as an alternative, then you shouldn't care what her reaction is when you tell her. If would be pure evil for you to not say anything, though.
2007-01-24 10:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Duuude. Please tell her. It's just nasty if you don't. Tell her because, you never know. She needs to get tested and if she is positive and doesn't know it, it is really awful because she might decide to go sleeping with people and infecting all kinds of other people. The point of it is just being a good decent human being. You cheated. That was not good, but it doesn't mean you are on the evil path to hell forever. Just do the right thing. Tell her. In the longrun you'll feel better about yourself if you do and so will she.
2007-01-26 03:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-25 03:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If you've slept with her since cheating on her, then she needs to know so she can have herself checked. You are really a messed up person if you passed a disease to your girlfriend! In fact, you need to tell her regardless of whether you think you have passed it onto her or not. Be honest, tell her the truth, and hopefully she dumps you.
2007-01-24 11:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So don't be a coward and fess up to your despiccable act . Cheating is bad enough but now you want to give this innocent bystander a lifelong weight of a millstone around her neck . I hope you have not had unprotected sex with her since . She has to get to a doctor and be tested . Have a heart and tell her pronto .
2007-01-24 11:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Although it will be hard, I would definately get honest and tell her. You are risking her health by not doing so. Think of how it would be if the tables were turned. Your girlfriend got Herpes and didn't tell you!
I know it will be hard but you need to face the consequences of your actions.
2007-01-24 11:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO NO!! AND YOU SHOULD TELL HER.NO ITS NOT A CURE FOR HERPES BUT THERE ARE OTHER MORE SERIOUS STD OUT.YOU ARE BUYING THE PRICE NOT FOR CHEATING BECAUSE IT HAPPENS BUT HAVING SEX UNPROTECTED IS THE PRICE YOU ARE HAVING RIGHT NOW.TELL HER AND THEN MAYBE YOU GUYS CAN BOTH DECIDE IF YOU WANT TO BE OR NOT.HAVING HERPES ISN'T THE END OF THE WORLD.THEIRS ALOT OF NEW AND IMPROVED MEDS OUT HERE AND HERBAL TREATMENT NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS I WISH YOU THE BEST OK!!
2007-01-28 09:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by K.B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Hows that for Karma?! The point in telling her would be growth for you, as well as a shot of humility. Also so she doesn't think SHE did something.
I was just thinking that would be a funny t-shirt.
CHEATERS NEVER WIN!
they just get herpes....
2007-01-24 11:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! She needs to get checked out!
Then she can dump your sorry A**.
2007-01-24 11:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by patrick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all ...if u didnt cheat on her..it woulent have hapend in the first place...and 2nd ...you need to tell her...b/c what evr yall have done together...could have infected her...so i would tell her no mater what..b/c if u did pass it on to her..she may pass it on to someone els..and so on...which isnt good
2007-01-24 11:02:09 · answer #11 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋