How do you tell you man that you have HIV without him getting mad??

Answer 1

Since you say "without him getting mad" I am going to assume that you've had unprotected sex with him. If this is the case, it is your responsibility to tell him. If you knew that you were HIV positive before you had relations with him, do you realize that you can be held criminally responsible if he is infected. And also, he has to take some responsibility for not protecting himself. Regardless, how many times does SAFE SEX have to be broad casted before people understand exactly what that means.

I don't think there is any way you can tell him that you are positive without him getting upset.

Answer 2

hmm well i would have to stay u were stupid to get it in the first place an di feel pitty on ur soul, sry.. tell him thatts theres something u need to know and do u even know if he has it? Tell him and if he loves u enough he'll go in for a test after that take it slow open up extreamley slow tell him inch by inch dont rush it or ul pay dearly well more than ur already paying for!

Answer 3

well hopefully before you have slept together. If you tell afterwards, you ain't going to avoid him getting mad. he will be furious.

If you haven't then he shouldn't get mad. Good luck

Answer 4

i think you should tell him ASAP in case he didn't get infected. tell him you love him and you have something really important to say , that you didn't know you had that and if you did you would never had risked him

Answer 5

if you knew you had it and had sex and he didnt know it, there could also be legal reprecussions.serious ones.

Answer 6

if he only loves you because he thinks you don't have it, then do you really care?

Answer 7

"Hi, honey. I have a virus that will kill me in the next fifteen years. Oh, yeah. So do you now.
I LOVE YOU, DARLIN'."


Hmm, I dunno, bro.