2007-01-20 01:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Soundguy 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
no i dont think that is wrong you can tell her you will also get tested the same day as her if that makes her feel any better and if she takes offence of getting tested well maybe you shouldnt be with her because maybe she is trying to hide something from you or is afraid of the results so no i dont think you are wrong at all
2007-01-20 01:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by brandy l23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is never wrong to ask your partner to be tested for any STD. If they really care they will do it. Now a days it is a safe precaution to do so. Especially if they have ever had unprotected sex with anyone. They may not have signs but may have a STD. Always ask a partner to be tested as well as you be tested. Even though there are no signs there may still be a STD. Herpes, Warts, HPV, HIV...its always safer to know and use precautions such as condoms. NEVER feel guilty for asking. If you are concerned for your health do not feel guilty for asking, feel safe that if everything checks out clear, being intimate will be better without having that to stress out about.
Good luck!
2007-01-20 06:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by egomezz007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never doubt yourself for an instant where your health is concerned . You are number one and the person that is offended is not worth your time no matter how cute they are or good looking or whatever . There is just too much out there and easy to get . Some does not show up right away . In essence you are having sex with all those partners that particular person has had sex with in the past . Who in blazes knows what happened there . The older you get the worse it gets because all the more partners exist . You got it ?
Remember this piece of wisdom for all times ! LOL
I hope you know what you are to do if she refuses.
Oh yes, and get a check up yourself too.
2007-01-20 01:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not just ask her if she would go get tested because you feel (put in what you feel like).
This is sometimes hard for guys to do this, but there is nothing to be ashamed off. Ohh by the way I would get you, yourself tested if you already had sex with her.
Go together, it would help her and help you at the sametime.
2007-01-20 01:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of just asking for her to do this, how about saying.....For the safety and well being of the both of us and because I care for you we should both go and get tested. Something along those lines. This way their won't be any accusatory factors or hurt feelings.
2007-01-24 00:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by major b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to ask your partner to get tested cuz if she does have a std than she could give it to you without you knowing.be careful.
2007-01-20 01:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are concerned, and want to be safe that is perfectly fine. It is your health. Why not do it together?
2007-01-20 01:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Popsicle_1989 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! not at all. As a matter of fact i would be happy you asked me. it shows you care about your body and mine
2007-01-20 01:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by coochie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong. She needs to be tested.
2007-01-20 01:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope and if she is scared go with her and if she wont then dont do her
2007-01-21 09:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋