2007-01-19 15:45:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
It's not invisible. Look at him, touch him. If he won't let you, then you can't trust him enough to have sex with him. It's your life on the line, after all.
2007-01-19 15:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by LCG 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot tell if a guy is wearing a condom if you do not see him put it on. You cannot always feel a difference. The best way to handle this situation is to enhance the moment by putting it on yourself. This will not only provide him with some stimulation, but it makes using a condom less uncomfortable.
2007-01-19 15:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Madre 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love, if you don't put it on, and he won't let you, he is not wearing one. They lie and are liars, so this is what you do. They say that the condom doesn't give the the same sensation (friction) as no condom at all, which is why they chose not to ware one. When they say they don't want you to get pregnant and they don't ware a condom, they are lying. They are trying to impregnate you and they are also trying to find out just how truly stupid you are. You may even be stupid enough to get pregnant and have the baby. So, instead of paying good money for a condom for a fool who won't ware one, if you think his meat is worth your time and energy, cut a middle finger off one of the yellow playtex gloves you wash dishes and do house chores with. Convince him that you will put it on and he will get "Friction Plus." Don't forget to use a spermacide inside the glove finger because condoms and everything rubbery has small holes in them. Don't trust him/them to be responsible. Be responsible for yourself. Are they worth it?
2007-01-19 15:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, don't be afraid to be the boss...it's your body and you have every right to say noooo and let me see and I am going to feel for it...it should have a rib at the base of the penis, the penis will feel like latex, not like flesh. You need to be really careful. The small little sperm that leaks out before intercourse has zillions of sperm, so it can get you pregnant. The condom is only protection against pregnancy...to an extent and NOT herpes or other std's. So, be pro-active...it's your body and your life. No nookie without the papers....clean bill of health...that's the price of sex for me. Not taking any chances. Remember every girl that the guy has ever had sex with you are bout to have sex with too. How does that make you feel? Yeah, so you have the right and the responsibility to take care of yourself. So, do that. Take care of you. If you don't know or have the backbone to insist on knowing, you need to re-think what you are doing, really. Please.
2007-01-19 15:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reach down and feel for it. You can play like your touching yourself for arousal. Or just ask. Don't put yourself in a position to catch an std or get pregnant. Its your body, and the fact that you have to ask this tells me that 1. your not ready to have sex; and 2. your relationship with whomever you are sleeping with is not very good if you cannot communicate about such a simple thing as a condom. Talk, be open, be honest. Talk about your personal boundaries, what is a must... and stick to it.
2007-01-19 15:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by silent*scream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in many circumstances, if worn applicable, foreskin should not be a concern right here. Uncircumcised men could desire to pull the foreskin each and every of ways down after which roll the condom over the glans. in the adventure that your pal believes that he could desire to purely get circumcised so as to get greater proper success with condoms then it truly is as much as him. in spite of if his reasoning is purely too lame right here. What assure him that his son could be afflicted by the comparable concern whilst he grows older? besides, condom is totally a technologies of our time. Who is familiar with what we could be utilising in the close to destiny? tell your pal to bypass away his son intact. it incredibly is as much as the son to elect in spite of if he needs a circumcision or no longer! whilst and if each time he starts off utilising condoms and sees a concern to it, then he can elect what he'd do along with his penis!
2016-12-14 06:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually there's this scent....I think it's the nonoxnol (sp) on the condom and if i were you, I'd reach down and feel his penis area so that you're sure he has put the condom on.
2007-01-19 23:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Madame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him. You can reach down and feel for it. Sometimes you can't really tell during, but you should definitely be able to see him dealing with it after.
2007-01-19 16:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to touch his penis and feel the rubber itself. I agree with another respondent who says to put it on for him. It can turn you both on and you will be sure that you are having safe sex.
2007-01-19 15:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by mountain woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your a little to young to have sex.
But since your going to do it no matter what.
Read up on safe sex and all that goes with it.
GET ON BIRTH CONTROL.
HELP HIM PUT ONE ON
OR
WATCH HIM
OR
ASK HIM
2007-01-19 16:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋