A few months ago I slept with a guy who I was totally crazy about. problem is- he has a girlfriend. We slept together a few times and twice he convinced me to have sex with him without a condom(stupid I know). anyway, we stopped seeing each other and in that time I had a fling with my best friend. We had sex but soon after I told him i just wanted to be friends.he was upset but we are still really close. yesterday this friend of mine told me that he went to the doctor and was told he has Chlamydia. he says he must have got it from me as he wasnt with anyone else since. Im def gonna get tested obviously, just as soon as i figure out how to do it without my parents finding out (any ideas?). Anyway, If i DO have it, I obviously got it from the guy i slept with who has a gf. I think its really unfair for the gf as she is a nice person and im sure she doesnt cheat oin him. I wasnt gonna tell the guy but now im thinking doesnt his gf have a right to know that her bf is spreading STI's?
2007-01-19 09:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by ckgirl_sa 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
WEll first of all I have to say Karma is a ***** isn't it thats what ya get for sleeping with someone else's man.... second get your *** to the docs that std can cause a lot of probs with your female organs... third I don't know if you wanna tell him or her she may be just a lil pissed about a girl( to her your a slut) coming up to her telling her you slept with her man and oh yeah guess what I got chlamydia yeah I would probley expect to get your *** kicked right there... I know thats what I would do if I had a hoochie come up to me like that for reals girl learn respect don't **** with other peoples men thats what happens...-
2007-01-19 09:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes get tested, depending on where you live, by law the Health Dept. may contact him for you.
Think all this through, a friend of your best friend said your best friend, whom you slept with, has chlamydia and says you gave it to him, after you told him you would rather be friends. What if he actually gave it to you? Then you would be the one looking like a horses *** by confronting the first guy. Also, it is too late to worry about his girlfriend, obviously you didn't while you were rolling in the sack with her boyfriend.
2007-01-19 10:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by e.sillery 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you chould, girl! your are strong and independent .. any man who does not have the balls to say that he has chlamydia before you sleep with him, is not a good person
2007-01-19 09:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!tell him in a very public place very loudly- and tell his girlfriend too!
2007-01-19 09:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by ms.lemmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him... if he is responsible he will take extra precautions to avoid spreading it.
2007-01-19 16:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋