a girl caled last nite and told me she had sex with my husband last week, she went on to say she found out she has chlymidia is it possible to know that quick?????? why do me and my husband have no symptoms????????? she claims it happened here in our house so i asked her to tell me what my room looked like and she couldnt give many details i dont know what to think he has cheated in the past and they say once a cheater always a cheater but i dont think he would be stupid enough to do it in my home............
2007-01-18 10:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by tristy 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
The best thing to do is go see your doctor. They can do a simple test that will tell you if you have chlamydia. They take a sample on a cotton swab (very similar to have a Pap done).
It is certainly possible to be infected and not have symptoms. Most people who have it don't even know that they do! But left untreated, even without symptoms, chlamydia can cause serious problems.
I hope you haven't been exposed, but if you do have chlamydia, it is easily treatable with antibiotics.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 10:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by r alexander 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chlamydia symptoms can take a while to show up in some cases. If your husband has a history of cheating then you should most definitely be tested. There is no reason not to be.
Also you should talk to your husband about the phone call and at least give him the benefit of the doubt. People can change and I personally don't like to subscribe to the idea of "Once a .... always a ...." With that said, don't be a sucker either. This is actually a great opprtunity to find out if he is lying to you. If you turn out to actually have chlymidia, and he has denied cheating, you know he is a liar and in his case the "Once a ..." label might actually apply. Whatever the outcome, I wish you the best!
2007-01-18 19:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by relius 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GO get a test done and do not engage with your husband. If this did happen and he possibly has chlamydia, then you don;t want it. An you need to discuss with your husband the next steps - like kicking him out! Good advice from the previous "listers" as well - try to check the number and call back.
2007-01-18 19:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by jalwerdt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either she is just trying to ruin your marriage or she is serious, the best way to find out is to get both of you tested. Also think of some more questions to ask her to see if she is telling the truth. If your husband cheated before what makes you think he wouldnt do it in your home? If he has already gone so far as to disrespect you by cheating, why not go a lil further and do it in your home? I say you get rid of the loser.
2007-01-18 18:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she got the wrong number? You should do a call back on the phone to find out what her number is if you do not have caller id. Ask him about it. No reason to risk your health or his.
2007-01-18 18:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Squeegee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she does that go to the police and ask if they can put a trace on the number so they can put a stop to calling you.
2007-01-18 18:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ask your hb make it clear, if he say no, then don't question on it, cuz trust you hb more important then trust others
2007-01-18 18:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by wu n 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What is chlamydia??
2007-01-18 19:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by keℓsey<3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋