My boyfriend diabetes?

Question

My boyrfriend of 2 months has diabetes (sort of under control). He's good about going to the doctors, ok about taking medicine and eating. But his sugars are still higher than they should be and he doesn't get any physical activity. I don't have a family history of diabetes so I'm very unfamilar with it and I'm very active and healthy over all myself. His diabetes frankly terrifies me. Although everything else is greally great. Any advice?

Answer 1

If you wanna get over your fear of the diabetes then you got to find more information about it. Diabetes can be a scary disease and can lead to complications such as blindness, stroke, heart attacks, nerve disorders and even amputations. But it can be controlled and you can be a great help to him. Firstly find out if its a Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes as the management is a little different. Is he overweight? If he is having Type 2 diabetes and overweight, exercise and losing weight will GREATly improve his body's sensitivity to insulin. Check out websites on food with low glycemic index....basically these type of food will not cause a sudden surge in his blood glucose level and will help him to manage the disease better. Also take note of signs of hypoclycemia (low blood glucose) and hyperglycemia (high blood glucose) which will affect all diabetics at one time or another. Find out what do to when they happen...it can save his life.
Check out the links below...they will help you. Anyway, your bf is lucky to have someone who is so concerned about him. Take care mate!
http://diabetes.about.com/od/?once=true&
http://diabetes.niddk.nih.gov/dm/pubs/riskfortype2/index.htm
http://www.healthyweightforum.org/eng/articles/glycemic-index/

Answer 2

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Answer 4

First off, diabetes is not contagious so being terrified of it isn't necessary!

Secondly, it sounds like your Boytoy has a regular regimne with his doctor which is a GREAT SIGN! Means he's aware of the problem and, at least, is being monitored for it.

The people who really need to be concerned are those who do NOT visit the Dr's.

The best advise for you is to always be prepared. When you're out on a date with your boyfriend, carry some candy or store-bought tube of icing incase he goes into a diabetic attack where his blood sugar drops.

The more active your boyfriend is, the less likely he will be to have a tough time dealing with his diabetes as he gets even older.

Tell him, in a really polite manner, that you don't know much about the disease but you're concerned for his health because you care about him.

Ask him about the disease. Ask him all the questions you have-- it'll show him you care. If he seems uncomfortable talking about it, back off but say "Doyou mind if I do some reading? I'm just curious and want to be as well educated as possible." He shouldn't have any problems with this. Go to your library and ask the librarian for some info on diabetes.

When you and he have had a good long talk, then you can say "I've read that being physically active helps with diabetes symptoms. Would you like to start giong for walks with me every monday night?" (or something similar) Or take up skating- either roller or ice skating. Or go hiking or go bird watching or WHATEVER you need to do that gets you both out of the house. Make your dates physically active and hopefullyl that will help you feel like you're helping him, too!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

If he is taking his medication regularly and in proper doses, and his blood sugar is still too high, has his doctor suggested that maybe he needs insulin?

Many people with adult onset Type 1 diabetes are misdiagnosed as having Type 2 diabetes. This can be dangerous if not caught in time.

Make sure he tests regularly, takes his medication, follows a healthy meal plan, and gets in some exercise like walking after meals.

Have him see a dietitian. Some people THINK they are eating much less than they really are. Or more healthy than they really are.

If there is no improvement or his blood sugars continue to climb steadily high, I would suspect slow onset Type 1 diabetes. He would need insulin in this case. It is not preventable, and is NOT linked to diet, exercise, or obesity.

He is still a person, like everyone else. Support him, go to support groups together, and learn all you can about his disease. This is the time he needs you most. It will mean a lot to him, and help keep him healthy in the long run.

Answer 7

More exercise will be good for his blood sugar, as it uses up sugar in the blood. I have diabetes, and when my sugar is up I find that 15 minutes of vigorous exercise brings it right down.
I'm guessing that your boyfriend is youngish, so the situation is a little more serious. How long has he been diabetic? Diabetes can lead to more health problems, so be prepared if you decide to marry him. But if he manages it well, problems should be minimal.
You can encourage him if he shows interest in helping himself, but you can't make him do it. What you see is what you get.
A tendency to diabetes is inherited, but it doesn't mean your kids would have diabetes. Lifestyle choices and dumb luck also play a part.

Answer 8

If he is type 1 then always achieving a perfect number is almost impossible. Is he type 1 or 2. Regardless he is in the care of a Dr. so don't be concerned too much. There is nothing I hate more then when my family thinks they know what I can and can;t do/eat. I am in control and I hate when others think they need to watch over me.

Answer 9

No,if his sugars are still high his diabetes is not sort of under control.
His sugars need to be between 130-170.
His needs to watch his diet and exercise regularly which will help him with his sugars.
Uncontrolled diabetes can lead to diabetic comas,eye problems,kidney problems,sores that will not heal,he could lose toes,limbs and yes even his sexual abilities.
Meat,fresh veggies and fresh fruits should be priority on his diet.
No starches,carbs,candy,cookies,cokes etc.
Regular walks,bike riding,roller blading etc to help his sugars.
If boyfriend isn't on insulin at this point,he will be eventually if he doesn't get his sugars under control with diet and exercise.

Answer 10

My boyfriend of two plus years is borderline diabetic and doesn't eat properly, get enough exercise and smokes like a chimney. I had no clue what diabetes was and did until I met him, and it terrifies me also. Some days he just isn't himself, quiet and sleepy. I wish I could inspire him to take better care of himself.