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i have had multiple testing for STDs in the last nine months, one rutine, one because of pregnancy and then another because my husband came up with gonorrhea. i havent had sexual contact with anyone but my husband in the past nine almost 10months and all my std tests have come up negative. now on my last one i came up positive for Herpes. how is that possible?? i know they say you can have a a desease and not have any symptoms but how is it possible that after having three negative testings for STDs and no sexual contact with no one other than my husband (who has also had negative testings for STDs except for gonorrhea which he did not transmit to me) that i come up positive with herpes?? could it be a misdiagnosis??? the doctor didnt do any further examination or counsling. all he said is that i shouldnt worry all it means is that i have developed the antibodies. i am 5 months pregnant and i know that there is a possibility of harming the baby and i do not want that ..someone plz help

i am also pretty sure that my husband will walk out of my life when he finds out that i am infected with herpes....i feel so terrible....i just dont know what to do!!!

i dont know how to live with the fact that i now have an uncurable desease and there is nothing i can do about it. and the fact that i am almost 99 percent sure that my husband is gonna leave me makes it so much harder. but i know that i have to tell him....i dont understand how after all these testing i suddenly come up positive with herpes....i am so shocked. i feel like my life is over....i know that i should be happy that i am having a child....but what if i contract it to the baby? and if my husband leaves what am i gonna do???? i dont know if i can live with that....

Answer 1

well first of all how did your husband get gonorrhea?!!!!!! He could have also given you herpes without getting a full blown case of it himself, sounds like hubby has a problem keeping it in his pants!!!!! Drop the dumb, cheating bastard before he gives you aids too!!!!

Answer 2

Honey you have to relax abit. The stress you are putting on the baby will not be any better than a disease. Go to the docter's again. Get re-tested. Being as though he did not follow up or give you any antibiotics immidiately, tells me that there may be something more to this. Yes, you do have to tell your husband. But how did he get gonorrhea? didn't you make it through his outbreak? Maybe you should mention this. If in deed you are positive once again, tell him. If he leaves, there is little you can do to stop him because a marriage isn't about walking away. Apparently he was wavering from the beginning.

Answer 3

Even though there can be no noticable physical symptoms for herpes, it would still show up in a blood test. If you haven't been sexually active with anyone else but your husband since your last test, my guess is that he either already had herpes and you have just recently contracted it from him (he can have the virus for years and not pass it on) or he cheated, just recently contracted it and passed it on to you. Regardless, you should tell him about the positive test and he should get tested as well. Make sure you tell your OBGYN about the positive result so he/she can monitor you as you get close to your due date. He/she will take the precautions to keep your baby safe. Good luck!

Answer 4

You should get a second opinion. Human system does not create a disease as an anty body to another disease. And your husband is a yerk if he leaves you for having herpes after you accepting him with GONORRHEA!..

If it happens to be that you have herpes, there are many many treatments for that and all you have to do is take pills thats all.

Don't be scared!

Answer 5

go to another doc and get test from him,if you do have it ,it must have come from your husband,or you got it a long long time ago and never developed symtimes till now.but he must have it too and if he gave you gonorrhea chances are he gave you herpes too.

Answer 6

your husband probably gave it to you