Just got diagnosed with HSV 2 herpes and my first outbreak was very small just four little painless blisters. So I was wondering if I will get these every month or year. Also shouldn't my outbreak have been more severe or is the worst yet to come? I heard they get less and les frequent with time and also less severe and I was wondering if I will become symptomless with time since my first episode was mild? I am very scared to know what the future holds for and really think about marrying the first girl that will take me. Also can I still have a kid, no need for marriage if the girl doesn't want to but at least I'll have a kid to raise in the future. Thanks in advance. I feel so lonely now.
2007-01-16 16:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
The outbreaks appear not monthly. It depends usually on your condition. Be care full when you are very stressed out or if your ill. When you immunity system is "busy" you can get an outbreak. But it is not periodically.
I have herpes for about 2 years and it occur ed more and more rarely. Also the symptoms got weaker, it is true.
When I have an outbreak I usually don't sleep with my boyfriend, and in 2 years he had not one symptom. You can transmit it only when the blisters appear.
He knows about my condition and he is OK with it, just have a talk, people understand.
2007-01-16 16:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by dragon_todo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i first want to say u r certainly not alone, so don't feel lonely. i assure u that u can have kids and a normal life. u don't have 2 marry the first girl that comes along, the person u r meant 2 be w/ will understand and see past the fact that u have herpes. when i first found out i had herpes i was devastated. i mean really devastated. it's only been a little over 1 year so every now and then i get sad and feel bad about myself and the decisions i've made in the past. it's totally normal to feel the way u do, and i promise u will start 2 feel better about the situation w/ time. Remember everything happens for a reason, even when we can't understand why there is always a reason. i like 2 believe it's always 4 good. i believe i got herpes so that i would change my behavior and have more compassion for people. with time u will start to see that all things work together 4 good. u will get through this, God won't ever put more on u than u can bear. whether or not u will get outbreaks every month depends on your immune system, everybody is different. if u r sure this is your first outbreak and have painless blisters i would take that as a good sign. outbreaks typically improve with time so if it's mild now it's not likely it will get worse. i pray that u do become symptomless w/ time, but if u don't there is medicine to help u. good luck, it's not the end of the world. enjoy life, live, be happy, keep ur chin up:)
2007-01-19 07:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by so123 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-18 01:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A blood test will tell if you really have herpes.
If you find that you have frequent outbreaks, there is a daily medication you can take to reduce the frequency.
You can still get married, plenty of people do, and you can still have a kid. If your wife has herpes and has a child, the only risk is that, if she has an outbreak during the last stage of pregnancy, they may want to give her a caesarean, but that's it.
Calm down, your life isn't over. Plenty of people live with herpes. Just get educated, be aware when you might have an outbreak and always use condoms in the future!
2007-01-16 16:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-13 09:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 02:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that it's herpes? I was told by 2 doctors that I had herpes and when I had an outbreak and went to 3rd doctor he said that it wasn't herpes, it was a reaction to something that I was using (bath soap, laundry soap, fabric softener, etc). I never found out what it was that caused it but as long as I use Dove soap for sensitive skin, All free and clear and no fabric softener or bubble bath, etc. I am fine.
P.s. You can still have children.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 16:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get more information about HSV. even though herpes cant be cured yet it can be controlled. there are new medications available now. There is no set pattern for the outbreaks. and each one can be different. Stress can cause flare ups. if you eat healthy, exercise, drink lots of water. you can help yourself stay healthy. Always use protection when having sex and wash your hands well after handling yourself. Be honest with any potential sex partner. especially if you would like a relationship. it really isnt the end of the world. you can have a life. there are support groups available for people with herpes too. contact one.
2007-01-16 16:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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