Someone has broken my heart my dream.Its like without any warning attack on me.Break in love relationship My love escaped from me without saying anything and one day when I found out she said I m going to engaged with someone else.I was shocked but still smiled and said if you are happy then go with him. But tell me where m I lagged?She said nothing. I tried to realize my mistakes and asked her for forgiving if anything hurt...and explained for the possible mistakes.But she told me nothing...but shouted on me like stop irritating me..I have no concern for your emotions.. I am really confused...what really made her to escape from me? I didn't shout on her.but with smile said her good bye.
I really feel shameful that she escape from me..I couldn't make her happy. Lost my confidence...problem with me is that I never feel anger for her.
How can I get my confidence and how can I get over from all the negative feeling of myself?
please help me..
2007-01-15 22:53:03 · 21 answers · asked by nbgl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi friend,
Don't lose heart.The world is big & U can really overcome this small hurdle in your life.Listen to your parents & marry a girl shown by them & be loyal to her & that will be your great life.Don't ever think of the past life & go forward in your life.
2007-01-15 22:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by hemadri_nagaraj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, may be she was not worth your love. She was simply flirting with you and once got a man with money and more status she has washed you away. I would say you stop worrying about what has gone and live in the present. Stop calling her as she feels its irritating the reason being guilt feeling. She knows your too good for her but there is some reason she left you for. So live life. If not her another tomm. But this time take time to think and get the angel of your life. Surely God has made an angel for you to care for you to love and be your always.
All the best for a happy future.
2007-01-16 07:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Advengal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With her consent, she got engaged to someone other than you , and it tells you that she no longer needs you.
As she is not revealing the reason to you she neither wants to reconcile with you nor make the reasons known to you.
By deep introspection you can get some idea about the possible mistakes you had committed against her wishes.
Forget the whole episode once for all and try to regain your self confidence. If necessary, consult a psychiatrist to gain more confidence.
2007-01-16 08:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating can be tough, and if she broke up with you, it is really better that it happen now, than end in divorce. I know your heart is broken, but try to live one minute at a time, get active with some new friends, and learn from this that it is all life experience in finding your one true love.
She probably is dealing with her feelings about what she wants in life and this is no reflection on you. You are a good person and this is part of growing. Hold your head up high and move on to a new friend....remember, friends first! Good luck, Sweetie!
2007-01-16 07:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.....tht quite sad...no idea why she just left u w/o even telling u netg
may b itz smtg related to her circumstances or smtg related to her wich is further related to a feelin tht she dsnt wnna share
since life has to move on....u hve to get ur self busy in ol kinds of work....
and the next time u get a proposal ..... say yes w/o thinking if u like her or not coz wht u feelin rite now ... u may make some1 else feel the same way
paste a fake smile on ur face....u never knw wen it turns to reall
seee u lost love so u need love to recover
2007-01-16 07:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Nat$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously u fell hurt but the fact remains that ok someone said goodbye to u so move on........u know it's great that u have the ability to see that she is happy and be happy for her...u don't have to hate her..how can u hate someone whom u once were in love with....no need to hate her...instead just learn from the relationship and be happy that it happened and for a small time maybe but u learned to love with all ur heart.....u don't have to feel negatively about urself.....she isn't the one for u..........u deserve someone who can love u with the same intensity.......who can return ur love...move on and take this as one good relationship in ur life...........u r a gr8 guy who can let go........so take advantage of ur gift and let go..........y she left u is a question only she can answer maybe because her parents forced her to marry some1 else or maybe because she just felt that u were not the one..........or whatever the reason..the point is we all have our soulmates......she wasn't the one for u...i m sure u will meet a gr8 girl who will love u with all her heart just wait patiently..........and lastly don't cry because it's over but smile because it happened..........all the best
2007-01-16 07:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't make any mistakes but for the fact that you let her use you. be glad that you didn't marry or she would be cheating on you. Make a list of the good things you see in yourself read it every night and move on. You will find someone who really wants you for who you are and not just to have a place to stay until they find someone else.
2007-01-16 07:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not want to explain and chooses someone else you forget her. she does not deserve you. Dont bother. probably she has chosen someone wealthier or better-placed. In that case it is self- explanatory. you concentrate on your career and get on with life. there will come one nice girl for you. No one is worth your peace of mind. forget the whole episode. it may be difficult in the beginning but soon it will be over. get on with your life.one thing--- people respect you more for your skill than your gentleness and good nature.Improve your skills.
2007-01-16 07:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats love! sometime it hurts some time itsgood..but if your still young theres a lot of things going to happen on you..thats life! you have to accept that practically..it hurts ofcoures...but when the time past it will cure your heart and mind..you have to move on..if there is nothing you can do then erase it into your mind...dont do anything bad to your self...the human emotion is natural..if you feel sad then cry..if you feel angry then punch the wall...dont hide it into your self...its much hurts if you hide it...dont worry it will cure soon just dont think about it too much...theres alot of girls more than you like her...
2007-01-16 07:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Gonzales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about that. But listen to reality. She wasn't your Love. She wouldn't have loved you. and just walked away. so, if she didn't have feelings for you. Why would you carry a one-sided torch. See it for what it is. Then you can move on. She's trash. You're much better than that.
2007-01-16 07:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋