w hen i was young i was hit by my father; and i was bulled at school.
2007-01-15 22:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have low self esteem and no confidence..once u start loving yourself u will love.
2007-01-15 22:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already diagnose part of the problem. Because you were not loved and abused, you have a hard time showing loveto others. The problem is half solved. Love is the greatest thing there is in this world, if necessary seek some professional help.
2007-01-15 23:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do you just don't know it , unfortunately we often never realise how much we love something until it's gone forever , you ain't at school and your father ain't gonna hit you , life scares you so your looking for excuses to avoid it , if you truly have had a hard time then your armour against life's set backs should be stronger than other peoples , life's a challenge and you've got to be in it to win it .
if you insist on dwelling in misery then set yourself impossible goals like you going to get your driving licence by summer or your going to buy a house by next Xmas your license might take until next Xmas and buying a house might end up being just renting a nice flat but perhaps one day you'll wake up and think my god I'm doing alright for myself really .
2007-01-15 23:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By letting these things affect you now you are still letting these people get to you, they have won. You need to be strong to overcome it, stick two fingers up at them and get on with your life. I was bullied at school too but had a loving supporting famly to help me through it. By succeeding in life (good career, happy marriage) it is my way of getting back at the bullies. She who laughs last, laughs longest!
2007-01-15 22:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are selfish.Dont deny yourself the happiness of loving.You need someone to teach you how to love since you have not experienced it.Iam willing to so.Get lessons from at no charge.
2007-01-15 23:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about that. : (
I hope you realize someday that not everyone is out to hurt you.
Learn to love yourself. Think about your sweet qualities. I can tell you one. Your a tough survivor! : )
Smile! Your worth it! Good luck huni!
2007-01-15 23:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can love u just haven't found the right person yet thats all
2007-01-15 23:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by jcathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you go and seek help with your problem. counselling will help you through your problems
2007-01-15 23:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell..............not difficult.
2007-01-15 23:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whiye is it dat you morfons cannnott psell? dae has psell chick on dis ting
2007-01-15 22:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋