are there certain times only when a girl wants to be affectionate?

Question

i try new ways of turning her on, but it just seems like when i do something different its almost like it isnt good enough,or she doesnt want to be bothered..last night i went to hug her in bed and she said my breath stinks.but it didnt i just brushed my teeth and used listerine.then later during a commercial break on tv i go and kiss her thigh,just because i wanted to,and she pushed me away.she said she couldnt see the tv.i dont work right now, could she be bummed about that,like its a turnoff.i dont kno what to say anymore,i try and be more affectionate lately in ways i never was and i just get pushed away.is there anything i can do to spice it up and get her out of her asshole mood,if so please let me kno

i forgot to mention,i got layed off from my job,and im trying everything possible to get another one.

Answer 1

Maybe she had her period or had PMT. Perhaps she just had a bad day. It will go away.

Answer 2

Yes you can start by getting a job. She might be feeling used by you because you are not working and she must be taking the full responsibility.
I hope you are not spending the whole day watching TV instead of looking for a job. Even if the money isn't a problem, does it mean, she gets turned on by having a lazy men next to her. None women can feel special and turned on by a situation like that.
Women are not like men that sex can also be used to relief. A successful men turns us on as much as a pair of boobs turns most men on.

Answer 3

Why don't you ask her why?
It's probably you not providing her security. Women want to feel safe, secure and comfortable. Plus women are attracted to a mans accomplishments--so if you are not accomplishing anything at this time she'll never feel 'in the mood'.
Go to a temporary job service--they usually will have some kind of job--take any that they have in the meantime.

Answer 4

I am going through the same thing at the moment with my man. he is contantly pushing me away and shows me no affection. are you sure there is no other stress in her life apart from the fact you have no job? my man is very stressed at the moment and just needs space. please talk to her about it though, It took me a few weeks before I aproached it and although things have not improved I understand why. at the end of the day if you love her work it through, if not move on but make sure you tell her why.

Answer 5

im going threw the same. it always used to be horny and **** now she is just never in the mood for nothing. kissing, hugging and having sex. when we are in the house alone all night she never get horny but when we not alone and my mum and that are in she decides to be. just hope that she gets horny some day and stop being like that.

Answer 6

the only thing is to talk to her and get her roses and while shes at work make her dinner and one thing will lead to another and oh ya dont forget the wine you need a tad of that.. maybe shes just gettin it tuough at work or somthing must be bothering her help her relax...

Answer 7

You may be able to get her into a better mood, but it sound like your energy will be better invested in someone else.

Answer 8

Dude no woman wants a man who can't support her.

Answer 9

No offense babe but she sounds like someone with no self-esteem and it wont be long after even if you could please her, she'll find something else and another thing and one more. Please dont say she is the only one for you. Please yourself, find someone new while you're at it.

Answer 10

you answered your own question buddy.......now go get yourself a bloody job and stop your whining......would u wanna be with a woman who had no vagina??? yeah, thought not

p.s. keep up the moves with her though......girls luv that shizzy once they respect you...