i think i like my best friend. but i love my boyfriend and dont want to leave him, there is just a strange connection between me and my best friend and he said he likes me too but he also has a girl friend i dont want to break everyone up i need to know how to get over this and still be friends with this guy????
2007-01-15 22:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you and him said you like each other behind ya partners back. so why dont you just go out with him coz you ovioulsy want to. then maybe your partner and his partner will get together. just enjoy life. k. frosty
2007-01-15 22:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend i know how you must be feeling coz i went through the same situation and trust me it's hard coz your torn between not wantig to hurt either your boy friend and your B.friend.I would suggest you try to search deep within your most soul when your alone and ask yourself what relly makes you happy?Who brings out the other side of you that no one else does not even your parents.For me i would choose to be with a guy with whome i feel at ease to be with and not pretend.For now spend alot of time to first discover yourself first and know who you relly are and what you want Most importantly let God lead the way ask him he is only a prayer way even two words will bring an answer to you.
2007-01-16 06:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by janet n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 options
1. if u and ur best friend love each other then it is better that u break ur relatinship with ur bf and gf as this will be good for all 4 of u as otherwise u will spoil 4 life ur bf will feel bad or maybe he will be hurt by ur decision but that will be for sometime but if u cheat him then it will be pain for him for life time.
2. if u think u cant live without ur bf then its better u end ur relation with ur best friend as otherwise u will get attracted to him
and hen u will create a disaster
so dear now u have to decide
2007-01-16 06:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by simran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
went thru this myself.as long as you all hang out 2gether and r having fun it shouldn't b an issue..................but if you love ur friend it is now a different scenario.be up front with ur boyfriend about ur feelings or else u r gonna lose everyone in the process.if u love ur friend....tell him.he could be your soul mate.
2007-01-16 06:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you dont have to do anything about it right now. if you both know how you feel about the situation just let the relationship your already in go, and then maby later if something goes wrong with the one your in now then you have a great person to talk to
2007-01-16 06:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o m g.....i never knew tht people get into my kinda problems tooo
welll plse i knw tht u love ur bf and nt ur best frnd...iz infatuation...
it happened to me tooo
itz painful wen u get to knw tht u love ur bf wen u leave him and go to ur best frnd
dunt even think of tht
ull spoil 4 lives
ur bf's whum ull leave
ur wen u get to knw tht u dunt like ur best frnd
best frnd's girlfrnd wen u take his love away frm him
and lastly it will b ur best frnd whu will rcv ntg frm u
THINK ABT IT
depends on u to be happy with everyone or cry with no1
2007-01-16 06:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nat$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time take over. Just wait.. you'll probably end up together, but if you move too fast, it can ruin things!! Don't cheat on your bf or let him cheat on his gf. If he cheats on her, he will cheat on you!
Good luck!!
2007-01-16 06:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with ya bf of ask me out
2007-01-16 06:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that you are b/f's and it should stay that way
2007-01-16 06:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assk PARIS HILTON!!"That's hot"
2007-01-16 06:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Apocalypse 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋