My girlfirend wont even take off her top and so i am tryign to get her to take it off and be less fridged.
2007-01-15 22:23:21 · 23 answers · asked by Luke B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am NOT after one thing and i do love her but i am just trying to improve the relationship. As well as taking it to the next level.
NEVER SAY THAT I DONT LOVE HER! AND I DO NOT TURN HER OFF AS SOMEONE POSTED!
2007-01-15 22:38:03 · update #1
Also i am 16 and i am not pressureing her to do anything but i am just wondering how long it will take.
I don't mind waiting and also my mate told me to say fridged as i dont think she is as i think she is just waiting for the right time which is fine with me.
2007-01-16 00:31:22 · update #2
leave her alone..stop pressurising her u sex maniac
2007-01-15 22:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by not calling her "fridged".
I personally feel that having a partner that is constantly trying it on can be a major turn off (no offence.) Give her a chance to be the one to make a move.
If you love her make sure that she knows it. Tell her as much as you feel she needs to hear it. If she does lack confidence it will help alot. I'm sure I speak for all females when I say we love to be made to feel special.
You don't say how long this has been going on but if it has been going on for some time don't you think you should talk to her? It would be alot easier to get the answer from her and not from this site.
2007-01-16 06:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by kate g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so impatient. She will take it off when she feels like it. It will take time for her to be the way you want her to be. Meaning the more close you get. She will be taking if off more and more. Shes just probally shy or doesn't feel secure enough around you yet.
2007-01-16 06:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love her listen to her. stop trying and trying, no wonder people think you are just after one thing. Show her you respect her and let her take her time. Kiss her and keep your hands on your back or her back. It will drive her crazy. when you stop trying she will trust you and let you go further. I hope you stop using the word frigid too coz its the worst word ever and implies girls who take their time are bad/sad individuals.
2007-01-16 08:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try challenging her to a game of strip
poker.
when she asks why three kings doesn't beat a pair of
10's u just smile????
alternatively you could just be grateful u have her at all and wait for when she is good and ready.
personally i think it is rather nice that she isn't a brazen hussy
(whatever that means?!!)
take it easy!!
2007-01-16 06:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try and make her do anything!...It sounds like she isnt comfortable with you!...I dont understand why she even sleeping with someone like you!! You cant make anyone less "FRIDGED," yo just have to make them more comfortable, maybe she wasnt ready to sleep with you to begin with but with that sort of attitude she felt like she had to!
2007-01-16 07:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by West-Lnds-Finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are disgusting. How about SHE'S not ready? You're obviously ready to get your rocks off but just leave off until SHE says she's ready ok?
Otherwise you're looking to get DUMPED. Getting her to take her top off isn't going to improve the relationship. How about couples who don't ahve sex until they're married? They have the strongest relationships cos its not built on sex.
Just leave it out. You big poof.
2007-01-16 06:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to make her less frigid.
shell take her top off when shes ready.
you need to grow up and stop pressurising her its not right.
2007-01-16 07:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by john9999999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with mummy pig, u obviously are after 1 thing if you loved her you wud wait and wudnt force 2 anything.why dont u find urslef a "good time girl" insted of pressuring your girlfriend she deserves better !!!!!!!
2007-01-16 06:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mal S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your girlfriend's problem is her boyfriend's attitude. There is more to life than trying to get someone's top off. Grow up.
2007-01-16 06:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you turn her off. Forcing her will only make her clam up more. She thinks (and is prob right) that you are only after one thing, and she is not going to give it to you.
she's not frigid, just not a slapper which is a good thing.
2007-01-16 06:28:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋