hi, plz help !how can i resist his seduction?

Question

i'm 32 years old and i have a family with one kid. i met this young guy and he's like..19. i dont know but we have so many things in common and never get tired of talking to each other. he is really smart. he has a gf ,too so we r just like friends. but the more im around him and the more i talk to him..., i think i begin to like him..i know it's really WRONG for me to feel this way but i just cant help it. i caught him staring at me many times when he thought i was not looking and he kinda blushed when i saw it. recently i kinda avoid him, he asked me what happened bla bla and tried to find out why i am like this..yesterday he even grabbed my hand and asked me "can we talk..?" when i was abt to leave when i saw him walking into the room. i think he knows that i like him.i dont know, im so confused and feeling guilty now. i shouldnt felt this way. what sould i do???plz help me!thanx alot.i havent told anyone abt this because im too embarrassing

Answer 1

You do know that it is wrong right?
Just think this situation as you temptation will you pass or will you fail only time can tell.
You must be strong, or you'll mess up your live for sure.
For a guy with the age of 19, I believe his goal of relationship is different with you, please reconsider and be strong for your own sake.

Answer 2

What's the problem? At 19 he is not a child. It is possible that you could have a relationship with him. Why should you be embarassed? For heavens sakes he is old enough to join the military and get blown up by a car bomb in Iraq so he should be old to handle your attentions if that is what he wants. Whether or not it is financially feasible could be another question. BTW, my late wife was quite a bit older than me.

Now, I have no idea if by "family" you meant you have a husband or not. If you are married then this is no different than being attracted to any other man.

Answer 3

purchase your self a appeal and stay away from the evil influernces of those naughty women who will drag you into the devils lair and tempt you with activities of the flesh - or merely evidently strengthen up. If females are attempting to seduce you its probable given which you're goodlooking and that they think of which you like different youthful adult men in keeping with possibility interested in a pair grownup behaviour in case you at the instant are not involved tell them yet please spare me the save on.

Answer 4

Are u married. If u are, walk away, in fact run!! avoid him &cut all ties. If u a single mother-if demi moore can do it so can u, its a compliment to u, &he has the maturity to hold a decent conversation with u.

Answer 5

dont be embarrassed, your not old if thats what you're thinking, when i was 19 i was dating soemone almost a decade older and that never got int he way. your only problem may be his gf. i think you should tell him how you feel in private and make him decide....gluck

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Answer 6

By family, I assume you mean husband? you find the kid attractive because he pays attention to you but you need to work on bringing that into your family situation if you can or get a divorce and find someone closer to your age that will give you that.

Answer 7

Dont get into serious relationship. Being friends is ok.Dont encourage him in a wrong way.You might have problems in the family.

Answer 8

do u really think this guy is enough reason to destroy ur family life or deceive your husband if yes go ahead if no
tell us what you are doing
if u want part time flirts and can hide them go ahead
we are all lurred into such fancies
do you think we shud all grab the opportunities?

Answer 9

be honest u r enjoying it and deep down inside u want it to continue
only u can help ur self just be frank and tell that guy to get lost of u really want to end this.

Answer 10

Change you number and delete his