im polite, friendly, been told i scrub up well.
yet every girl i go for doesnt wanna know!
is there such a thing as being too nice?
or do girls just like insecure scumbags?
2007-01-15 22:10:33 · 35 answers · asked by DJ Chewie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thing is, i just dont like being plain nasty.
sure i might be too open. but id rather be upfront with somethings, than have them ruin stuff later on.
ive know so many girls, who end up with someone who started nice, but end up making them feel worthless.
i aint into playing silly mindgames to keep someone on their toes.
i just cant and wouldnt wanna do **** like that.
2007-01-15 22:26:23 · update #1
im 32 if that helps!
2007-01-15 22:37:43 · update #2
Nice guys can get fine girls, I do, but there is such a thing as being too nice, I know. I consider myself and have been told I'm a nice guy but I also play regular football, go to the gym, not afraid of a confrontation (at the same time don't go looking for one) basically masculine stuff. You need to find a good balance, girls won't go for you if you're being wet about stuff, be assertive, NEVER sit on the fence about anything but at the same time be considerate and thoughtful. It's tough mate but you will attract the right girl for you eventually, don't completely change who you are though and turn into a tw*t, little adjustments are all it takes and I'm speaking from personal experiences here. Good luck
2007-01-15 22:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem for a while in my late teens and I will give you some solid advice. Never change who you are and continue to be nice. The sort of girls who like the bad guys will not be the right person for you anyway. You will meet a girl who will love you for who you are and you will feel the same. Hang in there my friend and I promise things will get better for you. Also I think women have an extra scent in smelling desperation in guys. Relax and be yourself. Go out and have fun and don't focus on trying to meet someone. You always meet people when you least expect it. I know how hard it is to get rejection, but try to get to know women more too. Most of my partners have been women I have known for a while. You will be ok soon just follow my advice, relax, enjoy life and let things fall into place. Good luck.
2007-01-15 22:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by mickeyleon123 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All you need to do is to keep being nice, and i assure you, the right girl will come....
It's not like girls don't like simple guys, maybe you've not found the right one, but when u do keep searching, you will. You just have to keep being your self, and keep it real, nice guys are hard to come by such as me, so here is my advice for you, because i've been there, i saw and i conquered... I believe you could do the same, so don't stop being nice...
Hey would you like it if you were my friend?
2007-01-15 22:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my other half will go mad for me answering this question in his name but never mind. I am a 31 year old lady when i was young i must admit i did just go for scumbags kept me on my toes and i enjoyed the chase never lasted long tho. As us women get older and maturer you will find out that we prefer guys like you that we feel loved and valued with i promise, just one tip dont let girls walk all over u tho if u give love and respect expect it back if you dont get it leave hun cos they not worth it gd luck not all girls are shallow
2007-01-15 22:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by ANDREW F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have heard the saying that nice guys always finish last right. Some girls want a bad boy, someone they know they can't walk all over. Being to nice some girls may see you as a big brother type and lets face it, that's not what girls want when they are looking for a date.
Hope this helps
2007-01-15 22:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Leslie B 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
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2016-10-31 06:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by arrocha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your agegroup really - I know when I was in my early to mid twenties I only did the whole bad boy thing - "nice" boys bored me as they were no challenge and I considered them dull and boring.
however - since Ive turned 30 my taste in men has flipped - now I find myself ONLY attracted to nice guys that you can rely on - wont fight over stupid things at the drop of a hat and basically make your life a misery!
Regardless of what age you are though - theres bound to be a girl out there for you - its just a matter of finding her.
Good luck xx
2007-01-15 22:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what u r talking about i have always been the nice guy but never had a real gf i am to the place maybe i should change the way i am maybe that would work
2007-01-15 22:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes perhaps you are to nice , but you can't change perhaps what you need to do is be less obvious , your nature means you like to help people , so help them , but don't ever mention that you are going to , never give your reasons as to why you did , and when as must happen on occasion you choose not to help again never tell anyone why .
your problem is you are to transparent no one needs to get to know you because your an open book , if a parcel arrives open no one gives it more than a glance , but if it arrives sealed with no label it drives people mad to know more about it !
i hope this helps good luck .
2007-01-15 22:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way of the world for you I'm afraid nice guys finish last - And I say that from my own personal experiences!
2007-01-16 03:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by nachomanhulk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋