hi all. I'm on the pill now and ive been taking it since the past hmm 3 years I think and I don't want it anymore I want my body to be natural but also I wouldn't want to fall pregnant yet either because its not the time for babies yet... is it the same chase of getting pregnant if you the the pull-out as it is on if you're on the pill, you know what im mean...? or should I just put up with the pill till the right time comes to make a baby? (im married by the way)
shouldn't I decide what I want regarding the pill or is it also my husbands decisions to?
what you think?
2007-01-15 20:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by Tina 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I used to do the "pull-out" before the pill never got pregnant but of course that doesent mean its safe I know and im sure we ALL now that NOTHING is safe so :p yes I did talk to my husband about it but he feels safer if im on the pill but I just don't really want it anymore hmmmmm
2007-01-15 20:58:20 · update #1
I am not on birth control and my husband & i use the pull out method and i have not became pregnant in the last 5 years (i was pregnant in 2005 but we meant too but i miscarried)
We are both 27 years old and only have one 5 year old son.
I think my husband has mastered the art of pulling out just in time because i haven't gotten pregnant nor do i doubt him when he does pull out.
I know i could become pregnant again if we slip up just one time but if it happens that will be alright.
If you think that you could practice the withdrawel faithfully then maybe it will work for you as well also i have charted when i would be fertile/ovulating each month so i will know not to have sex on those days.
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It is up to you if you want the pill or not.
2007-01-15 20:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The pull-out method shouldn't even be a method because it doesn't work. There's this thing called premature ejaculation that happens to a man before he reaches his full climax, and that premature ejaculation can contain millions of sperm cells. Not to mention the fact that sperm cells can live inside a woman's body for up to a week after being put in there.
If you don't want to be on The Pill anymore then get off of it, but you should definitely let your husband know about it, because no matter what method you try, there is always the risk of pregnancy.
You might want to try the shot or something else that doesn't have to be taken everyday. Or have your husband spring for some condoms. It shouldn't all be YOUR responsibility, especially if he doesn't want a baby right now either!
Good luck...
2007-01-15 20:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by wantacerveza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a baby then then the pull out option's not for you! If you feel the pill aint agreeing with ya try going back to the docs and try a different one there are so many on the market. Your body hormone levels change quite a bit as you go along it might just be the pill you're taking aint quite the right one. Ultimately the decision is yours but do chat to your bloke about your options!
2007-01-15 20:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by bex b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in the end the decision to take te pill should be yours, but your husband as your sex partner should be involved in this decision. If you don't want to take the pill but want to ensure that you won't get pregnant why don't you and your husband talk about him using condoms and pulling out. Those two together while not guaranteed is strongly likely that you will not get pregnant. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 21:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by newsoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to have a baby then you'd better stay on the pill. Lot more "but he pulled out!" babies out there than there are "but I was on the pill" ones. There are some sperm in the pre-ejaculate that can impregnant you so pulling out is NOT a good means of birth control.
Tell your husband you don't like being on the pill and discuss the alternatives (sponge, spermicide, condom, etc) with him.
2007-01-15 20:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes pulling out will still get you pregnant, pre ejaculate still has sperm, best bet is to stay on the pill until you want to have kids. and you should discuss getting off of the pill with your husband, he may not be ready to have kids and if you end up pregnant cause you didn't tell him you went off of the pill that may cause some trouble in your marriage. if your really wanting to get off of the pill there is spermicides and you can use condoms but there not 100 % you may still get pregnant. defiantly talk to your hubby first make sure you both are ready for kids if it ends up being that way.
2007-01-15 20:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by athena9980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!!!There are other protection methods.My sister swears by the patch.So do quite a few of my co-workers.There is also IUD's
-I belive those are inserted into your body.That one is no work for you.And that pull out method is not going to work.Come on now. My 10 year old cousin got pregnant and her boyfriend could not even get his penis in?!!!Pulling out- to risky.Talk to your husband and your doctor. Your doctor can help you best and give you ALL the options.
2007-01-15 21:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by doshidoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Statistics show that 27 out of 100 women who use the pullout method will get pregnant. 8 out of 100 women who use the pill will get pregnant. As you can see there is a significant difference between the chance of pregnancy between the two. There is however a method that is quite effective its called the Fertility-awareness based method which is comprised of 3 different parts (1 Temperature method -2 out of 100 women in one year will get pregnant (2 Cervical mucus method - 3 of 100 women in one year will get pregnant (3 Calender method - 9 of 100 women in one year will become pregnant on this method.
I use this method and it works well for me.
2007-01-15 21:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Coitus Interruptus is not safe, many a child has been born after these methods were used. The pre *** carries sperm too so don't do it. Consult with your family clinic, there are other methods availablle, not all of them allow for spontanaity though. One method is to have a sort of microchip inserted under the bicep that releases the hormone to keep you safe. But discuss this with you doctor or family clinic.
2007-01-15 20:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to be on the pill anymore then don't be. it can really reck your cycle. just use condoms after that or i quess you can try the withdrawall method. i went off the pill 8 months ago. and used the withdrawal method with success up until two months ago when we decided to have kids. im now 2 months preg and very happy.
2007-01-15 21:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Louise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋