2007-01-15 20:07:51 · 16 answers · asked by richa g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
SOMETIMES IT IS.
2007-01-18 04:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't "fall" into an extra marital affair you choose to get into one. Secondly your sentence really doesn't make sense. Thirdly, who do you think it is fair to?? Your spouse? Your family? The other person's spouse or family? Affairs are selfish
2007-01-15 23:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not at all fair to fall in extra marital affair. But some people opt for it because of certain reasons. In the case of man,
1.He may not be happy with his wife physically.
2.Some men accidentally fall into due to the circumstances, places and persons.
3.Some men intentionally fall into it for physical gratification or material advantage.
4.Some men opt for it to boost their ego and spread theirs seeds.
In the case of women,
1.She will go for such relations with some purpose.
2.Some go for physical gratification.
3.Some prefer it to keep their positions and privileges intact.
4.Some are trapped into it.
As the last word, let me say that, if there is children, they are the loosers. So please avoid it.
2007-01-15 20:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by jmcm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its truly unfair to have an extra-marital affair. If one is interested in his/her spouse and his/her spouse doesn't really love him/her then he/she should get a divorce and marry the person of their choice and lead a happy life.
otherwise its better to explain about the problems one is having with his/her spouse and resolve those things.He/She should not forget that its not difficult for ones boyfriend/girlfriend to deceive him/her and have another affair with someother person .There are chances that his/her girlfriend/boyfriend may have developed the affair with him/her only to satisfy their sexual desire or to lead a luxuerious life by using the his/her wealth.
2007-01-15 20:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Swa007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please dont fall a prey to the other person.From distance, they may seem to be kind,generousand lovable but once they get what they want from you or if comitted to you and had to bear your responsibilities also, then they would show their real ugly facewhich will be far worse than your hubbys.Even for fun,please dont as it will lead to disasters.Just think of your kids or do some art and craft ,just divert yourself from that thought.
2007-01-18 16:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by filly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not fair at all. It could break up the marriage. The worst affected would be the children, it is not fair to them.
2007-01-16 00:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation..........
If u love some one else than you should give divorce to ur hubby & marry that person to whom u love.......... Ya... this is fair...
But the first thing which is most important that everyone should do :-""" THink about ur child or children"""
Dont cheat ur hubby Tell him the TRUTH........
Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-15 20:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not think it is wrong.I do not mind at all.But you have to tackle it in a mature sensible manner.i mean do not try to become a nuisance in the life of the other woman.Carry it out in mature and hassle free way.
Then it becomes simply great!!!!
2007-01-17 21:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of affair. If you are talking about sex it is not fair as it is risky. any other relation is fine.
2007-01-16 16:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lt is a shame...marriage has to be taken seriously ...when 2 people love each other,there is no need a third one.
2007-01-15 20:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i feel every thing which does not made u guilty conscious is
fair,& nothing wrong in it,
thank u,
God bless u
2007-01-16 15:58:39 · answer #11 · answered by all4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋