i'm so desperate because Dec 1st was my 26th birthday
2007-01-15 20:06:17 · 14 answers · asked by Speedy Lizzard 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your still sooooooooooo young. dont be desperate coz you'll end up unhappy and with a loser of a guy.
what you should be looking for is love
if your in a loving relationship then the guy your with will do anything for you , which will include starting a family and having children.
just dont worry!!!!!!!! go on dates. meet a guy you like... see what happns. just wait for love. if your not happy and in love and have a child then think of the poor child and what he/she will have to grow up with.
just be paitent. itll happen for you.
2007-01-15 20:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! I wouldn't want to settle down with a woman with that attitude! Listen to yourself! What do you look for? You look for a man who you LOVE and who is capable of supporting a family. But you HAVE to REALLY **LOVE** him. No man wants to just fill a role in a family. He wants to be valued as a person and supported emotionally as well. That's why I would be scared of you . . . you sound like you want to get with just anyone who is capable even if you aren't in love with him. Another thing . . . he has to really love you too. Without those things, the relationship will be very rough. Don't be in such a rush. Just date and go at the natural pace. You can have children at 30 or even older. Date the man for at least two years before you consider marriage. Good luck!
2007-01-16 04:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm almost 27 and if you had asked me 7 years ago where I thought I'd be by now, I would have told you married with at least my first child. Well, I'm not married (in fact I'm completely single), and I have no children. I've realized that I have plenty of time ahead of me. I just hope to have kids before I reach 35.
2007-01-16 04:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?? i understood ur question but i couldn't believe a women at the prime of her life with opportunities around her could want children just yet. But go to a sperm donor clinic, the best way.
2007-01-16 04:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably not a bar or night club cause that just means that they want to party and not settle down so maybe you can ask some of your friends if they have any friends that are single
2007-01-16 04:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by thatguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. you have time, but if ur real desperate, try your local sperm bank for a test tube baby.
2007-01-16 04:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God have not intended for you to have children yet! don't rush into it put Jesus ahead of your like and he will direct your paths and place what you need in yur life. be patient
2007-01-16 04:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try getting a husband first. Believe it or not, kids need a father.
2007-01-16 04:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think church would be your best bet for a family man.
2007-01-16 04:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to hi5.com and check it out
2007-01-16 04:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋