2007-01-15 20:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by travelimits 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Some hospitals offer classes for new dads. I would recommend enrolling. You can also visit http://www.askdrsears.com for some great information.
2007-01-15 20:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Smurfy Keeps Going and Going 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,-as a Mom, please take turns caring for the baby-changing the diapers, and if bottle fed-feed the baby. If breast fed-please bring the baby to the mom during the night feedings. Be prepared for not getting much rest for the first few months. That is normal. One thing too, to let the mom know how special and loved she is by you. Also, one thing I believe that all new parents should start doing-take a couple of hours to go out on a "date" with your partner. Have a few trusted friends babysit for you, at least once a week or once every two weeks-for a couple of hours. Parents of little ones need "adult time" with each other. Congrats, and enjoy!
2007-01-19 22:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enroll in a parenting class either just for new dads or for you and your wife. Keep in mind is that your wife is going to want to still feel as loved and as beautiful as before your new baby. Be sure to pay her some personal attention. Be as involved with your new child as you can. Just holding your baby and talking to him or her is bonding and you don't know the impact it will have. Good Luck and Congratulations
2007-01-16 04:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by newsoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so happy for you and your wife!
Being a parent is the greatest feeling in the world.
When the nurse hands the baby to you for the first time
you will never forget that experience.
Your baby will look up at you and your eyes will meet and
you will have this feeling of ownership that will always be there.
Along with that baby comes responsibilities.
too many to record here...and lots of joy and surprises...
Whatever you face with your child...do it with love and understanding...with faith in God that he will lead you to doing the right thing for your child.
Each child comes into the world needing someone to feed and care for them until they reach the age to do it for themselves.
We want our children to learn to do many things...and some children learn faster than others...so we as parents have to be patient...in all they are doing as they develop.
Each child comes into the world with personalities all their own.
Some are traits they inherit from the mother's side or the father's side we have no control over....but they are there for sure. So this reminds me that even though they might act like "Uncle Bill" they are still themselves an individual...so respect that that they are "one of a kind".
When it comes to setting rules and regulations you and your wife do it together and not one saying one thing to the child and the other parent saying something different. This just confuses the child. Plus if you and your wife have a problem don't hold it in ..the child senses it and this affects their nervous system. Clear the air so the "air" is not tense in your home.
If you are of faith that is a big "plus" ..a child needs spiritual training also and not left to do for himself at a later age. What they learn from early years will follow them throughout their lives.
It will help guide them when they have problems and need some support from a higher power.
No page here can hold all that is in my heart to say to you..use common sense ..have a schedule for your child about going to bed and eating etc...as he ages...don't be too strict..or too easy..somewhere in the middle....communicate with him or her and always say I LOVE YOU...and how much you mean to me....that is also FOOD...
In closing...God bless you and your wife....and your new baby coming soon and give you the best life has to offer...be patient for material things...your family and your relationships means more than what you can buy....
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-01-16 04:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your child unconditionally have fun enjoy the time you have with each other as they grow up so fast. Give mum a break and make sure she gets rest and feed her lots if she is starving so is baby. Remember that know matter what your baby loves you, looks up to you and most importantly learns from you. Play with your baby in the bath when you are changing the nappy, dressing baby all time is play time and teaching time sing to baby, count toes and fingers etc
2007-01-16 05:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by arianasdad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and offer to get up with the baby in the middle of the night, delivering a baby wears you out so she'll need her sleep. Make sure you change diapers even poopy ones. Play with the baby and also make sure you make time for them even when they get older. Kids grow up so fast and sometimes you forget what they used to look like, what silly things they did and how much they look up to you to guide them. They strive to make you happy and they will copy everything you say so watch your language! As long as you love them and support them even when they did something stupid you will make a great father. Just remember when they are teenagers try not to embarass them to much!!
2007-01-16 04:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by diana h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats dude, I'm only 15 but I can't wait to be a dad. Anyways you should treat them well, give them alot of attention, keep them away from drugs, let them believe what they want unless its something like completely crazy, save your money now so he/she/they can go to college, teach him/her/them (ok im not doing that again) the "value of a dollar.", and don't freak out when they show up at the door in all black, dyed hair, and chains. Good Luck!
2007-01-16 04:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Just Another Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still in school stay there and finish, always be there for the baby even if your not working yet and when you do start working make sure it's a honest living.Don't do things illegal and when your child get older you try to tell them not to what you did, start it off right,don't be a dead beat. and kiss an play and love your baby with all of your heart and he/she will do the same to you.
Good Luck and Congratulations!!
2007-01-16 04:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Be there 4 ur child 2 the of ur ability.
#2 Teach ur child good moral values.
#3 Love ur child no matter what.
#4 Pray 4 ur child (everyday if possible)
#5 Save up 4 college now.
2007-01-16 04:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your child's needs first at all times from now on, as that is the sign of a real parent. For me, when I became a Father, I could finally see what it was I was meant to do in life, and it changed me forever.
2007-01-16 04:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..where to begin. First off you need to sing to your child in the womb...especially in public. Then when it's born dress it in a little owl suit. As for a name make it Syduck or Jigglypuff. It'll love you eternally after that.
Also give it a really funny middle name, like the vicar of dibley.
Hope this helps...
Maybe we could make a play date for your child to meet my little Walt Pig in a box Dingat...
Cheerio
2007-01-16 04:14:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋