i have this friend who i really like.and he says he likes me too.but he lives two hrs away from me.he calls me everyday,tries to see me whenever he can,he drives 2hrs to come get me just to spend a weekend with me,he acts more like a boyfriend to me then my past boyfriends have.we agreed to just take our time and be friends for a while befor we decide to hook up.he's 21 he hardly ever drinks,has a full time job,his own house,and goes to college so he can get an even better job.he's basically my dream guy.and he's even good in bed(as if u wanted to kno).but he's basically everything i could hope for.but what im wonderin is if i should give him a try.i just dotn wanna be hurt again.thats my worst fear.i dont kno if i could handle it again.but he's soooo good to me and he always does what he says he will do.should i give him a chance?i want to but am just scared to.
2007-01-15 20:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by babygirl_12589 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he would be a better risk than a lot of the guys you have dated. You can't avoid the possibility of getting hurt again unless you decide to never date again and remain celibate. If you don't want to do this then I suggest that you give this guy a chance because he seems to really care about you. Remember there is never a "no-risk" relationship.
2007-01-15 20:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To laugh
Is to risk appearing the fool
To weep
Is to risk appearing sentimental
To reach out to another
Is to risk involvement
To expose feelings
Is to risk exposing your true self
To place your ideas, your dreams before the crowd
Is to risk their loss
To love
Is to risk not being loved in return
To live
Is to risk dying
To hope
Is to risk despair
To try
Is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, has nothing, and is nothing. She may avoid suffering and sorrows, but she simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, and live. Chained by her fear, she is a slave. She has forfeited freedom. Only a person who risks is free!
2007-01-16 04:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AND how old are you???? probably 16 or 17...he wants u 4 sexxxx
2007-01-16 04:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by chi_south_kid1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a great guy! Relax and enjoy it!
2007-01-16 04:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont give this a go you will always regret it
2007-01-16 04:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋