I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've only kissed guys and the last time I did that was when I was 15. Is that bad?
2007-01-15 19:50:49 · 30 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start taking risks in life... put it on the line live your life like its gonna end tonight... live it to the fullest .. boyfriends are not hard to find... just step yo game up and theyll be the ones approaching you all the time!
2007-01-15 20:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not bad. Just take your time and meet more guys along as you go on with your life. You don't need to have a guy with you all the time and there are many more out there who would be a good partner to you. You don't need to rush into getting into a relationship with the guy nearest you. Sometimes, you're even better off without a boyfriend for the time being. You could start getting to know yourself more and then get to know other guys more too, on a deeper and more mature level.
2007-01-16 03:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by mimiko_13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're quite happy with the situation then thats fine - But maybe you feel that your missing something in life? Having a bf/gf can certainly make life interesting, and you learn all kinds of things from a relationship - you develop in the areas of patience, compassion, psychology, compromise, communication... I think your missing out on a lot!
2007-01-16 03:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a bad thing! You may not ever want to date and that is ok to. Some people are very happy just being who they are and doing what they are doing and that is alright. There is no handbook that tells us we must date. Do what makes you happy and do not worry about the rest of the world around you. Now days there are so many divorces I would not blame more people for staying single and not wanting to date.
2007-01-16 04:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ginny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no innocence is the sweetest thing
keep it like that
don't be too curious until you met the right one
i didn't have a bf till i was 17 and i had 2 the same year and kept 1 ever since ...
i wish i never dated sometimes because the age you are in is the best ... enjoy it while it lasts
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2007-01-16 03:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
havent the guys been asking youout?or have you not met the guy you think you can have something serious with?
if for the second reason, i dont think you have a problem.but if for the first reason,look deep inside you and work on making you more attractive.
all in all,i think the later you start dating, the more you would value a relationship and the less mistakes you make because you are older and know what you want
2007-01-16 04:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by beaume 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and have been on one date. I was supposed to go on a second tonight, but she had an emergency. I've never kissed a girl before.
2007-01-16 03:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in the least, it could be your working your way thru life at your own pace. To often younger folk rush into things... If you feel there is a issue then maybe you should address it, but from my point of view, there is nothing wrong with taking your time in such things. Quite wise honestly....
2007-01-16 03:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by captn morgan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Don't think so. It's o.k if u never had a boyfriend things take time maybe because the perfect guy is going to come into your life.
2007-01-16 03:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by starlight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No just a lil bit of afraid of getting crushed wich is understandable heck im 31 and i was also lonely with no woman in my Life and hey im shy and always had a problem with talking to woman so u know i been there myslef
2007-01-16 03:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sean S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad. im in the same position as you and if your anything like me then your just waiting for the right person. you have standards and your not gonna settle with just anyone. your not desperate. your sensiable. your waiting to meet a sweet decent guy coz your a sweet decent girl. ive never kissed or gone out with a guy either and im your age. dont worry. but if your like me then you just want to be a confident attractive well liked nice person? then be it!!
have confidence. dont be insecure. dont be hard on yourself and dont worry.
2007-01-16 04:04:32 · answer #11 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋