i found out my 12 year old sister is meeting a 25 year old?

Question

they met off a chatroom and the convos were saved and i read them and they are planning to drink and have sex and other stuff.

she is planning to meet him tommorow and she is at a friends house so i hav no way to contact her, and my mum is 4 hours away so i cant get her to do anything.

i am really worried she might get hurt, but i am not sure what to do

please help

Answer 1

You need to call the police and tell them everything you know. If you know where they are meeting you need to go there and stop her from going ANYWHERE with him if the cops don't do it for you. PLEASE PLEASE stop it. My sister went through this same scenario and I had no clue it was going on until after the fact and thank God she is okay, but that is always not the case. These men are sick and dangerous. Call 911 now and ask them to direct you to the sherriff or whomever you need to speak with. Don't be afraid, you just may save your sister's life. God bless you.

Answer 2

Wow,
Actually...I would call the cops.

In all honesty,
I would have a plan,
I would first ask your sister where she plans on meeting up
with him, And then I would get the address....
& The time they are planning to meet.

I would wright it down,
So you don't forget it,

Then...
I would call the cops,
Or go down to the police station personally,
And tell them the situation and that this is VERY important.
That she is only 14, and he is 25....
I would also tell them his intentions of what he wants to do with her.......

I would have the cops meet you,
Or even drive you out to the place where they intend on meeting,
And then I would ask them to sit, and wait for the guy,
And as soon as they do see him,
They will go up there and talk to him,
They will probably already be able to tell what his intentions are.

I mean, Why else would he want to meet a 14 year old, right?

He is a sick and twisted individual who is planning on making acts that are HIGHLY illegal and he will be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

He is what they call an " INTERNET Predator"


It is wrong, Just plain wrong.

You are her sister,
And you must protect her,
Seriously.....

My sister is 3 years younger than me,
But no matter what the situation of the age difference might be,
I would totally protect her, And love her....
I would explain to her after everything happens,
Why you did call the cops,
Even though she may be angry,
She will indeed understand as time goes on,
And as she grows to figure out just who she truly is.

You NEED to do something about this.
And you need to do the right thing.

Please help her,
If this is the truth,
You must protect her,
And call the cops....
Tell them everything.


I'm sorry that you are being put in this position...
I really am.

But you still love her,
There fore you must show it,
By protecting her.


I hope I helped,
Even if it is just a little.


If you have any further questions,
Please don't hestitate in contacting me, hun!

XoXoXo

Answer 3

The best thing to do is call the friends place, if her friend has parents tell them, if not at least warn the friend and if she cares about your sis at all she won't let her go. If all else fails CALL THE POLICE!!! What this 25 year old is doing is very wrong and very illegal and what he is planning to do is called statutory rape!!! This is a police matter as your sis is only 12 and should not be drinking or having sex, especially with a 25 year old man!!! What he is doing is wrong and he needs to be found and dealt with before your sis or anyone else gets hurt!!!

Answer 4

IF THIS AIN'T A JOKE, AND ITS A FOR SURE THING, CALL THE COPS NOW!!!!!! Show the cops the conversations. This guy is a sexual preditor, and he ain't gonna stop!! Where is the father? And your mom is 4 hours away!! That's awful..Id call the cops and try to catch this pervert and get him arrested!! Your sister is only 12, she doesn't know what she is really doing. A man that age, can easily manipulate a young girl into doing what he wants..stop him!!

Answer 5

Yes there is you can call the police your sis is a minor that should of been done already they can tapinto the computor and find out wherer he is coming from who he is and where they may possibly meet call them ASAP and report it have you called your mom? There are ways you can get in touch with her if you have to call the admin to the school she go to to get the friend s address ect. try real hard in the mean time call the police.

Answer 6

You need to call someone, a grandparent or the police for advice. She is to young and a 25 year old man who wants to meet a child like that, could be and sounds like a pedophile. This is a serious problem. I would contact the police if nothing else.

Answer 7

well will you let that happen?and what's with your sister?is she problematic,rebelling or something?if she is well what do you plan to do?will you let her ruin her life at such an early age?i bet she'll regret doing that after if you allow it to happen.try to know within yourself why this is happening to your sister and where you and your mother fit in with the situation.try to empathize with your sister.make her understand your point.elucidate her misconceptions in a way that'll ease her into realizing the truths of the situation and into making the right decision.do it all in a way that will not make her condemn you.

Answer 8

tell your mom and dad about that.. that is actually rape No girl that young should be meeting a 24 year old guy like that and that is just wrong tell your parents what she is planning on doing and if u can try to save them convos and also try to print them out and give them to your parents kuz yeah your right she is going to get hurt or end up getting killed so many young people go on yahoo or myspace and end up getting raped nowadays its not funny u should even try to talk to her and telling her not to go

Answer 9

Tell her that its very dangerous and its considered rape. SHe could get drugged and killed too.
You know more what to do? call police now. They will watch over ur sister & catch the man straight away once she meet up w him

Im serious! please do that. A paedophile is on the loose and no young girl is safe now..help the community to clean up the 'trash' & protect ur naive sister too.

Answer 10

call your mom ASAP and if she can't do anything like call the friends parents.then call the cops. have copies of the Internet chats.
But if it is not suppose to happen till tomorrow night and your mom is just 4 hours away why can't you call her and she get her behind home and deal with her daughter?Who is taking care of you two?An adult who can do something should be there for crying out loud.Call your mom NOW and tell her before it is too late.
CALL NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!