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my ex has come back into my life and hes saying he still loves me. i think i still love him too BUT he's saying its better we're not 2gether because he has to focus on his studies right now and if it doesnt work out this time as well, it will be really difficult for him because he cant affort to play around with time.
WHAT should i do?? I cant lose him again

2007-01-15 19:17:32 · 21 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

just respect his time!!!

2007-01-15 19:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0 0

Well, i think if both of you love each other then don't waste any more time waiting around. Make the move. It's now or never. When you're both together, take it slow and easy. Give him space to focus on his studies but still try to spend some time together. Why not you help him in his studies too?.....Give him some motivation and support too. Things won't be easy at first but soon after it'll be great for both of you. Good luck!

2007-01-15 19:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Please don't worry about this, ok? I am so glad he has come around to his senses and realizes that he needs you in his life. Just tell him that the both of you are working on your studies and that after college would be a great time for a proposal.....otherwise, the temptation for otherwise would be extreme. Keep him to it, also,,,,,are you doing classes? If you are then you could allot a study time together, it not only boosts you relationship, but your gpa.

Even IF your ex doesn't follow through, you should!! Get your degree and leave him in the dust. Use your judgement and intuition and I hope it works out for you.

2007-01-15 19:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0 0

Be patient. If you are both having feelings for each other than just take it easy with him for awhile. You guys can take things very slowly and ease back into a relationship. You can do little things to show him how much you care, like taking him his favorite food one night. You could also offer to help him study. Try to understand what it is he is really wanting from you and make sure he's not just keeping you "just in case". Alot of males tend to not want a relationship but not lose their relationship either. Just set down with him and both of you openly share your feelings and be very honest and open with him. Maybe after talking with him you can get a better feel of what he really wants out of a relationship with you. I hope this helps you, don't hesitate to email me if you have any further questions.

2007-01-15 19:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Williams 2 · 0 0

Ok, thiz iz a very common question i get. So you "think" you still love him... and he says he needs to focus on his studies. Well heres what I think.. i think he doesnt know what he wants(no offense), but i also feeld you cant "afford to play around with time" as well. You should never wait around on anyone and let life pass you by. I know you think im saying thiz like it should be easy, but i know its not,and i also know it iz the best thing for you. If you two truely do love eachother as you each say you do, then fate will take iz course and you two will end up with each other. But until then i suggest you do your own thing.

2007-01-15 19:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0 0

What about YOU? What do YOU want? You should do what you feel is right for you, period, regardless of what you feel he wants. Ask yourself: Do I really want to be with someone who says it's better we're not together because he can't afford to "play around with time" in the event you two don't work out...again?! Do you consider giving yourself to a loving relationship "playing around with time"? If ANYONE wants to walk away from you, LET THEM WALK. You want someone who longs to be with you. Do the right thing.

2007-01-15 19:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by blabla 1 · 0 0

So why has he come back in your life? If he can't manage his studies AND you, afterwards, he'll not manage you AND his workload, his friends, his leisure...
Point of being together isn't only about time spent together... It sounds as if he want you to be around but not to commit himself. Why not try to discuss with him about what amount of time and what sort of commitment do YOU need so you can test what he is ready to afford?
(excuse my English I am a stupid little froggie...)
Take care

2007-01-15 19:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Houba houba hop 1 · 0 0

It appears that guys are going to some type of school to learn how to properly 'blow the minds of women' by saying they have feeling for them especially if there has been history. Men can say anything but it's how they 'treat' you that will prove the truth. You'll know them by their 'fruit'.

2007-01-15 19:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0 0

UGH...... Sounds like he's using you.

Do you have self esteem issues?

Sounds like a one-sided affair and you know this is true.

Don't compromise your self worth over a guy wanting a fling.

Easy cure = finding a new fling

2007-01-15 19:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by mia b 2 · 0 0

I just think you should give him some time and if he really LOVES you he will find time for you.Because you know that down deep you want him to do good in his studies.

2007-01-15 19:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by carmen g 1 · 0 0

study????

study is another story fthan love.

he is not a good guy when it comes to love.

we have a partner not even for romantic activity.

our partner is our insperation. that's why we like to study because someone who help us. who can share. who can listen our problem. who do our assignments, hehehehe not all, just only for those difficult works.

would suggest, forget him.

2007-01-15 19:30:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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