before trying to get back together with an ex. i love her and we broke up because lack of time ( both working 40+ hrs and going to school full time) and because our relationship wasnt moving forward ( the next step would have been to get engaged but she was reluctent and probably got scared). its been 4 months now????
2007-01-15 19:12:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're obviously interested in getting back together with her. I think the best thing to do is to meet with her and let her know how you feel. She might be reluctant or scared, but you could start off easily and call her and just ask her how things are going. I would try and ease into it, but it seems that you are ready to try. Keep in mind that she might not be ready now, or might not ever be ready. But, if you want to get back with this girl, you need to bite the bullet [stop thinking about it!] and see where things might go. Hope it helps!
2007-01-15 19:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, ive been here myself. Time seems to be a very big factor in any relationship. Too much time can create many problems... as if you are smothering eachother, too little time iz like a gap between two people. But newayz, i feel that right now may not be the best time for a relationship for either of you. If you really do believe she is "the one" then you should wait no longer and make time for eachother. Otherwise i feel you shouldnt let time pass you by and let time make fools of you both.
2007-01-16 04:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to move forward, why would you want her back? You both have to have the same goals as far as the relationship is concerned. There's no set time to get back together. If it was meant to be, it will happen.
2007-01-16 03:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, at least try to keep a friendship going with her, even if it is just meeting for coffee or dessert at a cafe. Call her and see what she says, unless you would not care too bad if she is moved on.
2007-01-16 03:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had 8 years relationship with my ex & i`m trying to get her back too . its now 4 month & nothing realy changed since she left me!
i decided to wait for one year & then go for marriage!!!!
2007-01-16 03:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months is a good time. i'd say 3-5 months.
2007-01-16 03:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if you explain that you love her and try to get her back now would be a good time
2007-01-16 03:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let that ship sail my friend. "She was reluctant" says it all.
She will be reluctant again, I assure you.
Nope.... let her go.
2007-01-16 03:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by mia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as u can!!
2007-01-16 03:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Iverson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait no longer...
Either go get her or forget her...
2007-01-16 03:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋