I met this guy in a group I was in...we started being friends....he is an out-of-the box thinker like me....I have been hung up on two other guys for the past year; neither is working out....so he says, "Why don't you move on?" I realized at last he meant with him. I am looking for a married relationship; I am 32, I want to have kids. He is 20...one of the guys I was dating before was 20, too. He didn't bat an eye when I said I wanted kids, he makes very good money, is smart, like-minded. He is tired of dating women his age who are restless...he has always wanted a relationship that will last and last. He admits he still has some things to work on, but is willing to persevere in working on things. I like him, and I'm into him, but it feels different. Usually, I am hung up on the guy for a while, and then I find out they like me, but I didn't even realize I was heading towards a relationship...I just found myself hanging with him and then things started happening..your opinion?
2007-01-15 18:22:35 · 7 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey why make age a seperation because of age?Hey don't let him go no matter what he seems to be serious and there is something that you need to understand with this guy he is aiming for the same things in life that you are so try to. this is going to make your relationship stronger because you have an understanding and a great friendship and first of all they say and you must have heard it before friends before lovers.
Good luck with making your relationship successful
2007-01-15 18:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were just hanging with him as a friend then I cant think of a better way to start a relationship. The best relationships that I know of started with friendship, after all would you want to be in a relationship with someone who isnt a friend? And if he is smart and appears to know what he wants thats even better. In a relationship that has started as a friendship age shouldnt be a problem. I would however go into it slowly, if you really want to marry someone and start a family then make sure that this person would be good partner and good parent material. Also what kind of things does he need to work on? You dont need someone to take care of or that has major problems in their life. Look for someone to share a relationship with and if they happen to be younger or older dont give it a second thought, if its really there for you youll know it! By the way I'm getting married in a few months, he is fourteen years younger than I am. 4 years ago I would never have thought I would end up marrying him because he was so much younger, then he told me that age really doesnt matter if your head and your heart are in the right place.I say if you really love someone age will be the last thing on your mind. SLP
2007-01-15 18:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by SHEILA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what the question is but, if you want a guy who wants marriage & kids, you're probably better off dating a man closer to your age. A 20 year old guy might very well get married and say he wants kids but seriously, he can't even buy a beer yet! Your twenties are usually a time when you're growing and figuring out who you are and to get married then is pretty risky and alot of times, it doesn't work out. Have fun with this guy but I wouldn't put a whole lot of marriage/kids pressure on him.
2007-01-15 18:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nuts, he's 20. he makes good money? so what? has he gone to college? what does he know about life? i just cant say enough, walk away. Id say stick around for the sex, cause it would probably be great, but it doesnt sound like you can emotionally handle that kind of relationship. Believe me, you will be much much happier if you wait and find that next perfect guy, somewhere between 28-35. They're out there, just go to groups with older members.
2007-01-15 18:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by jezabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have the ingredients for a relationship that might be what both of you want.
2007-01-15 18:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE YOU ARE GROWN UP ENOUGH TO SEE THE VALUE OF FRIENDSHIP TO A STABLE RELATIONSHIP... MAYBR HE CAN TOO JUST REMEMBER THAT FRIENDSHIP WILL REALLY GET TESTED IF ONE OF YOU ISNT GOOD FOR THE OTHER BEDROOM WISE IF THE BOTH OF YOU ARE ABOUT ON THE SAME PAGE THAT WAY GO FOR IT
2007-01-15 18:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..
Not this guy..
You need a stable mature dominant man to guide you, rely on,
care for you and be your leader...
2007-01-15 18:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋