ok this guy asked me to go to his apartment and he was going to cook and stuff i went and we had a great time. he brought me my food and stuff and we ate and talked, watched this concert on tv and just talked alot. it ended with a sweet hug. was it a date or just a friendly get together?
2007-01-15 17:41:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy and me have know each other about 7 months he had a girl when we first meet but after they broke up we have been really flirty and he is a shy guy. this asking me kinda came out of now where and he was really nervous when he asked.
2007-01-15 17:53:28 · update #1
It was a date pure and simple. He invited you to his place and then waited on you. A friend would more or less just "grab some take out".
2007-01-15 17:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Valrosa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a date
2007-01-16 01:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds as a friendlyget together. date is usually somewhere out. when a guy is asking to come to his apartment it is either on the further stage, when u become more intimate and comfortable with each other or if it is done at the early stage it is just friendly get together. or he doesn't have any money
2007-01-16 01:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's gay, no guy wants "a friendly get together" with a chick. He just gave you a sweet hug because he's too much of a poosy to close the deal.
2007-01-16 01:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he your friend or boyfriend?
Boyfriend=date
friend=not a date
but I'm not even that sure about the boyfriend because if he was your boyfriend and you ended with a hug... I'm not to sure if it was a date.
If you just met the guy I'm think it was a date.
If you knew him for a while but nothing was going on it wasn't a date. Just pick which one you fall under.
2007-01-16 01:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a Trial date to me, he was just testing the waters to see if he wants to ask you out on a date. Or he was just hoping to get laid but didn't want to push to hard.
2007-01-16 01:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends: do you want it to have been a date? If you want it to turn into more, ask him nicely what was in his mind. If you aren't interested, assume he thought it was a date and tell him you aren't interested.
Ask yourself why, if you aren't sure, you would expect a stranger to know.
2007-01-16 01:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instead of asking random people that dont know you or him, you really outta ask him. This isnt a question that anyone on here can give you an answer for.
2007-01-16 01:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's trying to make it a date, but it wasn't if he doesn't consider it. he's sorta a wimp if he can't actually ask you out on a date. i think he likes you, but is still trying to get over his ex and taking things slow.
2007-01-16 01:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Misch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sure does sound like a date..
2007-01-16 01:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋