confused and need advice?

Question

i have 2 children 3 years and 5 months I recently found out im pregnant with baby number 3 i disagree with abortions but im not sure if i should keep baby number 3 please can someone give me some helpful advice

Answer 1

You've got 2, one more isn't the end of the world. Keep it. You will never forgive yourself. Sorry, but its true.

If your situation was different you may have other options, but you've put yourself in a unique situation. Hey, try the pill.

I'm being honest, hope you don't take it too personally.

Good luck.

Answer 2

My advice for you is to keep the baby. That baby can be your lucky charm number 3 :) If you go for abortion, the fact that you disagree with abortion will only result in guilt in the long run and it might haunt you for a very long time. I know it's hard to raise children nowadays but it can be done and it's being done all over the world. You're not alone and trust me it's a blessing. You will also learn a lot of things from your third child, that child will also help you grow. There's nothing to be afraid of. Stress can be managed. Money can be earned. Children are priceless ;)

Answer 3

Well, I myself, am completely against abortion. I just think that there are SO many people in the world that really want kids but can not actually give birth ad have their own for one reason or another so why not give them blessing of a child? Have you considered giving the baby up for adoption? It is a much better desion than abortion and especially because you already have 2 little ones, it will probly effect you very much emotionally, I mean adoption would to but at least you wouldn't have the regret of taking a life, but the peace of mind that you helped somebodies life become complete. I am sure you will do what is right for you and your family =)

Answer 4

That is a personal decision that only you can make, however I would consider that even if you don't feel you can keep this child and raise it, at least have this baby and give the baby up for adoption. There are many unfertile couples who are looking to adopt a newborn baby and unfortunately many of children up for adoption are not newborns. Many private adoption agencies would give you the opportunity to just about select the couple that adopts your child and allows them to be involved right from the start. This baby was created for a reason, don't waste an innocent life. If you contact your local planned parenthood clinic and/or talk to your doctor they should be able to point you in the right direction to local adoption agencies if that is a route you believe you could handle.

Answer 5

How could you just dispose an innocent child when it was not his/her fault of conception? Sometimes life gives us unexpected events and at first it seems impossible to handle but eventually, it becomes managable. Life doesn't give you more than what you can handle. Remember that.
You may not feel it at the time but trust me you will be glad you kept your baby, your flesh and blood.

I'd understand if you had an extra towel in the house that you just toss out or give away...or a computer or coffee maker or something... but please tell me you are humane enough to appreciate your third child and love him/her just like your first and second. How did he become at fault of coming into this world? Wasn't that the responsibility of the parents? Just because you had some misjudgement take place on the day of conception doesn't mean you can just exterminate the poor fetus. He was not at fault. He deserves to live and be loved.

Accept this graciously and help will be on your side. Be a woman and take responsibility of your actions. One more child, at any point in life, is no burden but a blessing.
I hope you make a wise choice. I'd be ashamed at myself for being a woman if I chose otherwise....


OH, and 3 more letters: I U D

or better yet, sterilization....

Answer 6

I feel very sad for your situation, I don't believe in abortion. Perhaps your situation will improve in a few months and you may see that you can keep bubby. If you feel you can't then I would suggest adoption as there is soooo many people that would love a baby, perhaps maybe a family member so that you don't feel you've lost them forever. I really wish you all the best and hope you can find a way to keep it but if not then look into adoption. Good Luck.

Answer 7

either keep it or give it up for adoption. I know someone who did adoption with their second child. It turned out fine and it was an open adoption so her daughter got to play with her sister. You have a very young baby right now. You may not be ready now but who knows maybe in nine months you might be ready. Abortion is forever and it hurts women. You have 2 children to care for now and an abortion could ruin you mentally and emotionally.

Answer 8

I think you will probably regret not keeping the third baby. It may seem hard financially and physically, but I think you will probably be happier in the long run. I have seen a lot of regret come from abortion and I would not like to have to see someone else suffer. Have you thought about adoption?

Answer 9

Why would you get rid of the 3rd if you plan to keep the other 2? Keep the baby. Are you maried? If you gave away baby #3 its seriously time to think about getting yourself fixed and never have kids again. I HATE it when women use abortion and adoption as a form of birthcontrol. Stupid ppl should not breed! If you give away baby #3, give away all your babies. You dont deserve them

Answer 10

By disagreeing with abortions, it seems to me you've answered your own question. I personally would keep the baby.

I couldn't live with myself after choosing to murder my own baby, and the not knowing would eat you alive it you put the baby up for adoption.

Good luck!