we dated for 2 yrs but argued a lot.he mentioned marriage.i dumped him out of nowhere.5 months later,we tried to make it work again but break up.i force myself to see other guys,but can't stop thinking of my x.he moves on and starts a new relationship.after a month,he gets in a huge fight with her/tells me he's going to dump her/uses me for sex/next day changes his mind.this shook me bc he's not the type to cheat.she dumps him for other reasons.i later find out from the girl that they never had sex.during this,i meet a guy that's ok,but still not as great as my x.my x sees a new girl but spends way more time with me than her.she ended up going for her x anyway.2 weeks later,my x puts my pics on his dorm wall/wants to hold hands.we makeout.i still love him but am afraid.i tell him i only want friendship.he is hurt/ignores me.i agree to give him another chance bc we're best friends but the only thing in the way is our love that never goes away.so i think it's worth another try.
ADVICE?
2007-01-15 17:37:04 · 5 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi!,
You want to give him another chance, i think that's the worst thing you can do to yourself, he has been using you like tissues , for your own good , don't do it, he doesn't deserve to get another chance.
Just remember, you deserve better, not him.
2007-01-15 17:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and move on. People that argue, dont know how to communicate well naturally within THAT partnership, so it would always be a struggle. Not to mention lack of trust due to the instability of the relationship...ie who dated who during OFF times.
Quit being best friends, as its a waste of time, negative for any new relationshionship that may develop and keeps you in a holding pattern. Not all relationships have such drama...peaceful loving ones can happen but its just the chemistry of the 2, as a team, that makes it work. This relationship has the wrong chemistry, you rub each other the wrong way...so it would be better to look for someone who makes you BOTH want to be a better person. If you ever have kids one day...youd want that child to have a stable home...not argument city.
2007-01-16 01:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be with somebody you have so much drama with.
If you two argue so much, it's not right.
If he argues all the time with his new girlfriend, it's because he likes to argue. Either that, or he's a D-bag. Either way, you don't want any part of that.
If you feel conflicted about your current relationships, they're probably not for you either.
Remove the drama from your life.
2007-01-16 01:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by Omniscience 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone sweetie he has reduced you to the "chick on the side"...he might say he loves you and all of that but the truth is you are just "convenient" when his other women act up bc he knows you'll be there for sex or whatever else he can take from you.... and why would you want a guy who would cheat on someone else for you?..it's only a matter of time before he does THE SAME THING to you..move on w/o him in your life
2007-01-16 01:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you two should just stay together so you stop dating, hurting and cheating on other people.
2007-01-16 01:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋