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I'm 18 and have been single for a while now. I want to meet a guy. I go out alot with my sister and friends to the club, but i don't really know how to approach a guy if i'm interested as i'm so shy. Its really starting to affect my self asteem, coz i feel like no one wants me, but people always say that its because of my shyness. I have tried to overcome it so many times but it just overtakes me. I guess i was born a naturallu shy gal. Are there any tips for helping to get over my shyness??? please help : )

2007-01-15 17:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Hi Tamara

I had this prob when i was younger but i overcame it and had the best relationships after... i gave myself credit for being cute and sexy... make yourself feel irresistible...let the guys come to you..you don't have to approach them... don't act shy even though you are...put on a facade... let your hair down...and have fun. Even though you are out with your girls act like you having fun with them..create an illusion about your attitude that always grabs others attention..if someone sees that you know how to have fun they will want to be near or with you... get a new hair cut and change your dress style... if you feel that u need a small makeover those are always the best.... dance..if you think that u no good... watch dance videos and copy them... do it with ease it will come naturally... if you overcome your shyness with ease it will become natural to u... it will take time so take it slow..

Good luck

2007-01-15 17:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Natz 3 · 0 0

Men like shyness in a woman. But you are correct, it means that it is hard to get to know you.

You should get your sister and friends to help you get introductions started with a man.

For example, you can talk to a man with your sister or friend there. This will relieve you of too much pressure since they are there with you.

You could have a serious talk with your sister or an understanding friend about your fears.

The most important thing for them to remember is to be there with you. If you have them, you will probably be more comfortable in a hard situation.

But remember, it is much harder for the men than it is for you. They are the ones that have most of the real pressure. For most men, they are trying to figure out how many women they have to talk to before one of them is interested. Your shyness could be considered as indifference by many men.

2007-01-16 02:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0 0

Hi!!
I've been facing the same prob in my past, and i can understand your problem...
Well let me tell u how i came out of this one
Just go for a friend(girl) who is just the opposite to u i.e. not at all shy...be with her and try 2 be like her
It wud help u a lot 2 cope up with this prob
Juss make sure that she has a lot of boy frnds...

2007-01-16 01:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 2 · 0 0

just try to relax and be yourself. the right guy will come along and appreciate your shyness!

2007-01-16 01:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 1 0

have you tried a few drinks?

2007-01-16 01:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just do u girl

2007-01-16 01:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by babygizzleandillusion 1 · 0 0

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