i love a girl,i proposed her,she refused.another boy loves her,he proposed ,she refused.
i dont know y but he is telling me to forget her n have no contact with her whatsoever.v all r in the same class.
now the problem is i trully love her, and cannot afford to lose her friendship.
that guy is a bully,much stronger than me and has a big group(all of them r my class friends).i have been hit by him several times but i cant fulfill his demands.
he is trying to apply pressure on me by all means and i dont know
how ll it it help his cause.
what should i do?
sucumb to his pressure?
or still love that girl?
i know there are more blows waiting for.
kindly help me.
2007-01-15 17:13:52 · 10 answers · asked by its easy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks everybody for answering......i was in a bit of dismay.now my doubts are gone.
i love that girl and i always will inspite of all odds.
2007-01-15 20:03:53 · update #1
if your love is true and sincere then the girl will accept your love someday, but that needs lots of patience and honesty . love is not a bed of roses you also have pain in love . if the guy is a bully , sure he feels insecure of your love. such a persons love is not true so dint bother . a few blows for your love is not pain ,isn't it? but if you are a nerd then love is not for you just move on .
2007-01-15 17:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by sanju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, both you guys, are wasting your time fighting with each other. The girl is very much intelligent or least interested in both of you. There is no point you getting hit by the OTHER guy for many more times.
Leave these filmy thoughts and concentrate on more important things in life.
2007-01-16 01:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by mobile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r love is true then wait for her acceptance and when she accepts and promises that she is with you then u can fight with the whole world ya. Dont care for u r bully friend I believe he has fear that she may love you thats y he is applying pressure on u.
2007-01-16 05:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kavitha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, wich is more painful, his punch or losing her. You got to be clear of what you want. My friends , they all tell me, be clever, don't be stupid, sometimes when we are in love , we lost all sense of direction, and becomes stupid( thats me.) Pls look from a third party's view and decide to continus this friendship or not. (Btw , did she say she has feeling for you or love you ?)Im not giving you any advise , just do what you want. I know you have the answer in your heart, just take it and use it.
2007-01-16 01:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still love that girl.. dont duck under some idiotic bully's pressure.. be brave dont be a coward.. he's larger than u and has a huge gang..... tell all your friends about him.. if they really care about you then they'd help you out. next time he punches you.. i hope your frends give him a real hard kick in his a** and he becomes an eunuch!
dont worry all the best!!!
2007-01-16 02:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if the the girl you loved was you and she wanted to know what to do about a guy she loved and was competing for? Do what ever you would tell her to do.
2007-01-16 01:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kim D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u truly luv that gil and hav a hope that she accepts ur luv atleast in future.... then its worth sum blows....... but if the girl is not interested in u then i think its waste trying.
2007-01-16 04:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
express your true self
2007-01-16 01:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound desperate. What a wuss!
2007-01-16 01:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELCOME for the thanx
2007-01-16 04:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by aaaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋