I'm a 22 year old guy, and I haven't been in a serious relationship with a girl yet. When girls find this out, they wont give me the time of the day. It really makes me depressed. I feel like no girl will ever want me because of this. I guess the reason I've never been in a relationship is because I am a little shy.
2007-01-15 17:07:33 · 8 answers · asked by Keef 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start treating women like sh*it. They are all screwed up in the head. They will do anything for guys who treat them like crap.
2007-01-15 17:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are two things you can do. Keep waiting around for a girl that won't have a problem with it. This might take a long time, but at least she'd be worth it. Or, you can just LIE to these girls. If they'd judge you, they're not worthy of the truth anyway. You use them for the experience, and then after that you can eventually be truthful in the future...
2007-01-15 17:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Guys and girls who've never been in a relationship before have VALUES and that's a good thing. I'm 15 and I've never had a bf while all my other friends are with someone because I want to have my first and last love. So don't worry. Let love find you.
2007-01-15 17:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So work on not being shy by talking to as many girls as you can, even if you're not interested in them. You have to muster up the courage and just do it. Then when you're not shy anymore you can stop telling girls you've never been in a serious relationship. If they ask you, just turn it back on them by asking a question.
2007-01-15 17:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by DJ Deep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's too bad that girls are like that bc they will never get to know what you are worth or what you have to offer..but you have to come out of your shell and maybe if you weren't so shy a girl could get past the fact that you have never been in a relationship before..try opening up first ab other things then when you feel comfortable enough with the girl, tell her ab your situation...however I'm hoping that besides being shy, you are a good person though bc if you're an @sshole for example you'll never make it to the part where you tell her that you've never been in a relationship bc she'll be stuck on what a jerk you are lol
2007-01-15 17:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
of course we will...it dosen't matter if u never been in a serious relationship before or been through many. It's a question whether ur interest in the person or not. Sometime girls find it to be kind of cute when she's ur first gf. All you have to do is just be yourself.
2007-01-15 17:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has to start somewhere, girls that wont give you a chance just because of this then they are not the kind of girls you want in your life anyway.
Stop stressing it will happen.
2007-01-15 17:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by cailieco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dated a guy off and on for 2 years, who had never had a girlfriend before me because he was shy. cute boy, very shy. i don't see anything wrong with it. i'm a shy girl who likes shy boys :-)
2007-01-15 17:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by *~SexyPharmTech~* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋