2007-01-15 17:01:13 · 25 answers · asked by lucky_blue_clover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another guy who's not a jailbird.
2007-01-15 17:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will help you heal and forget. I know exactly what you are going through at this moment. I was with my ex for 6 yrs and the 6 yrs I was stupid enough to stick by his side while he was in prison. I visited him once a wk and never missed a wk out of the 6 yrs he was in prison. The day he came out of prison he was completely different. He used me for my money. He heard rumor about me that was not true at all. I finally woke up and realize I was wasting my time. I finally have the courage to leave him and glad that I did. He was the love of my life but to bad he didn't feel the same.. my advice to you is let it go. I guarantee you he will not be the same person after coming out of prison. Don't waste your time like I did.
2007-01-15 17:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just that, really. You can explain to him that although your letter doesn't mean that you condone his behaviour, you still love him [if you do, that is], and want to get to know him better. Tell him about your life, things that you tell new friends: favourite music, movie, colour, food, how you're doing in school. If he is interested in continuing your relationship, he'll just want to hear about daily life for you, and catch up on what he's missed. You might send him pictures of you, anything that will remind him of life outside prison. Who knows, maybe a renewed relationship with you will help him change his ways. I hope this works out for you, good luck!
2016-05-24 20:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a soulmate who is good for you. He's going to prison for a reason. What kind of life do you think you'd have together, even if he never got busted?
2007-01-15 17:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the guy and find someone else,that is just stupid to wait, trust me you'll see in the future if u do decide to wait, you will end up being sexual with someone else cause you will miss the comfort and need someone that you can see on a daily basis and conversate with besides a girlfriend, you will eventually need a male companion, and right now you may say u will never cheat on him and you'll wait,but thats what they all say.
2007-01-15 17:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. If you don't have kids together than re-cap what went wrong, lick you wounds and find out why you dated someone capable of going to prison. Then don't tell the next guy about this one. It'll make you look bad.
2007-01-15 17:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kim D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices my dear. You give him the "Dear John" right off the bat. So he can do his time without worrying who you are sleeping with. [really it will give him peace of mind] Or, you can buy a huge writing tablet and a lot of envelopes and keep him posted. On that note, never write any negative letters. Good luck
2007-01-15 17:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so much in the whole soul mate thing. If he is truly your soul mate then you would wait. Keep in touch and have faith above all else. Conversation is a must. Conjugal visits might help too. Good luck to you.
2007-01-15 17:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie.... if he cared about anyone other than himself, he wouldn't have done whatever he did to go to prison... move on with your life... it's gonna hurt, but time heals. Don't allow yourself to be dragged into the gutter.... pick yourself up... dust yourself off.... and find a REAL man!!!!
2007-01-15 17:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by igiveall2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on why he is going my advice would be to leave him. People that go to prison for a long time usually aren't good people.
Sorry that you have to deal with it
2007-01-15 17:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by songndance1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaagh! Enough with the "soulmate" crap. Look for somebody who is appropriate and compatible, not this impossible, mythical "soulmate". And he's not appropriate if he's behind bars.
2007-01-15 17:08:44 · answer #11 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋