What are the chances that an older woman would find someone she is compatable with? I got divorced and wonder if love will ever come my way. Do you think dating online is a safe way to meet someone?
2007-01-15 16:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by doryanne949 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course its possible for her to find love again! Anyone can fall in love at any age, even when that person could be 92! But dating online, however, is not the way to go. You would want to meet someone in person or meet them unexpectedly. Of ocurse, there are online dating services, like eharmony.com or true.com. Try one of those sites if it itnerests you. It gives you the chance to meet someone to get to know them better. It takes time for someone to find love again so don't rush into it too quickly. Just take your time and figure out what you want in a man. Time is the best for this kind of thing so waiting is worth it because it could give you the chance to find something wonderful!
2007-01-15 16:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never to late for anyone. I'm 53 and I will meet that special someone again. 57 isn't that old and you will find love again. It will happen when you least expect it. But make yourself available at various functions to meet people. My neighbor has dated quite a few men on-line and met some nice guys. But be careful--if they start talking sex right off the bat--block them and move on. Don't feel like you hurt their feelings or anything because you don't need or deserve that type of behavior. You will find love again. Keep the faith.
2007-01-15 16:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by texasblueslady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think it possible, not sure meeting online is any safer than meeting someone at a library or on a cruise or hiking trip. I think all the desperate people try looking online as a means of last resort, so I'd suggest you just go hang out with the crowd.
2007-01-15 16:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! You just have to put yourself out there. One of my co-workers had been divorced for 10 years (happily) and her daughter challenged her to join an online dating service. She is moving in with her guy and is glowing! (she was also VERY cautious and joined a dating service that required background checks.) Like one other person said, just be safe and use your good judgment as you would with any stranger.
2007-01-15 16:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lady J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, yes it is possible.......it happened for me (I'm 43). There are plenty of men in your age range that are widowed or divorced and want to find someone special. I don't recommend online dating sites.......your chances of getting hurt are so much higher because there are so many players on them. Get yourself out there....join clubs, classes, dance lessons, sports leagues (lots of baseball teams for us older gals), join a volunteer group, let your friends and family know you're single and looking.....anything to get yourself out and social again. Treat yourself to a makeover and a few new clothes to make yourself feel up to the challenge. Love isn't just for the young....it's out there waiting for you to step into it. Don't let anyone tell you different. Go for it, it's not just possible it's a reality if you choose to make it so.
2007-01-15 16:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never dated online, but it is never too late to find love. No matter how old or young you are you will always find someone even when you think theres nobody interested in you!
2007-01-15 16:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Barlow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,love is love no matter what is your age nothing is impossible in love you cannot erase that thing 57 is not an old age for love it have the same kind of love like also 14 thats the thing love gives the peace to all you cant erase that because god do that to us people can be judgemental but love is not love is love peace is peace thing is thing
THANK YOU!!!
2007-01-15 16:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think dating online is an option but try going to the park or a small town diner or cafe' or something love could definitly still be in the cards for you dont get so down on yourself have some cofidence and it will show i mean look how beautiful the world is and being able to have life cheer up sunshine is on its way!!!!!! :)
2007-01-15 16:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by ~countrymonkey~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it can happen. Just so you know my mom met her husband of 2 yrs when she was 61, they married after knowing each other 3 months. He's wonderful and she's very happy. don't feel you have to be in a rush, appreciate your time alone and have confidence in yourself you'll find someone again.
2007-01-15 16:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you in such a hurry to date? On-line is dangerous especially eharmony. They all take your money and frustration builds
2007-01-15 16:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by pob2572 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋