why is it?

Question

i get people always telling me how beautiful i am, but when i look in the mirror, all i can see is ugly? i feel so fat and stupid, and i feel like the ugliest girl in school. i always walk with my head down and feel depressed that people will have the displeasure of looking at me, and i just want to hide from the world. when i look at models, i feel like if i don't look like them, i am worthless, so i am dieting until i can get my body to look like them, and when anyone says something about a fat, stupid, or stinky kid, i always assume it is me they are talking about, and if someboby looks at me for 2 seconds i feel as if they are doing it because i am so ugly, is there something wrong with me?

Answer 1

models are ugly. no normal guy wants a damn skelatin. normaly guys that want girls that are super thin is just becaus thoes women are easyer to control and dominate. you want to be domanated or treated like a goddess? if you want to be domanated keep doing the same thing, but to be treated like a goddess forget this model wannbe crap and just be the beautifull woman every one says you are

Answer 2

The best thing you can do is stop caring what others think of you. Easier said than done right? Well guess what been there done that. You sound so pretty inside and that's what matters. If you are really worried about your weight then check the charts to see how you rate. If you are weighing yourself everyday that's a big clue you need help. You see what really matters is making a difference and you don't do that by looking pretty!!! I have found out you become the most attractive not by looks or being the thinnest but by having confidence in yourself. Did you know that is the number one trait guys look for in a female. It's all in how you present yourself. It's hard to change the way you think, I know!! The best way is to pretend, pretend you feel like the top model, pretend like you have more to offer than anyone else in this world. Then it becomes a routine, not tomorrow it does take time. I t really works!!! If something embarrassing happens remember when you saw someone else embarrass themselves do you think badly of them, was what they did worse?? The less you care about your embarrassment the less others will. People pick up on your emotions. Good luck and love yourself!!!

Answer 3

Sounds like me, more in the past than now...but still it rings a bell.

You have very low self-esteem, and are highly likely to develop an eating disorder if you don't have one already. I wish I could do something to help you, but the only help you're going to get is going to come from yourself when you ask for it. Do something good for yourself, learn to love yourself. Maybe counseling would help to some degree.

Try to find one thing in the mirror you like, or at least don't dislike. Focus on that once a day. Then find something else the next day.

Hehe...I should take my own advice on this. I think i should try.

Answer 4

You need a serious dose of self esteem. You're being your own worst enemy. Quit being so hard on yourself and remember people see you differently then you see yourself. Listen to what they say, you may not believe it now but if you hear it enough and accept what they say as truth then at some point you will begin to believe it. I was just like you growing up as well as for many years into adulthood. I feel good enough about myself I can go out and look people in the eye and feel confident. Do I look like a model? NO! Am I ever going to look like a model? NO! I can only be me and do the best with what I was given to work with and at this stage in my life, I'm happy with what I look like. Keep in mind, it's not going to happen over night but it will happen and when you see yourself in the mirror, tell yourself that you're pretty every day. OR pick a feature that you DO like about yourself and compliment that. The concept will eventually catch on and you'll soon be able to name more features about yourself that you like. Good luck to you, keep your chin up.

Answer 5

Sweety take control, ask yourself I,m a beautiful baby went I was born. I have a wonderful mom who love me. Sweety your not stupid your asking for help right! I say buy nice clothes, do things that make you appreciate life cause alot of kids don,t have what you have,like a home, computer, CD, radio, make up, and a future. I know it hard being a young teenager, your a nice person and peoples, are telling you that what more do you want. I see druggy, prostitute, homesless, criminals, and murders, and suicidals. Sweety please don,t be one of them. Sweety don,t put your self down because you want to be someone else . I would like to look like Selvester Salone, but I,m not going to ditch myself because I don,t. Sweety a little rains, must fall before the sunshines. I say make the best of it and watch out prince charming just around the corner.

Answer 6

You are suffering from low self esteem. There is nothing wrong with you. You already said people tell you you are pretty. Believe them. You don't need to look like those models. To me they are disgusting. They are too skinny. A woman needs some meat on her bones. Now get out there and let the world know you are beautiful!!

Answer 7

Girl I used to feel the same way you do. I had people call me names in school. When someone says I wish I was back in school I say I don't because it was the worst time of my life. Everyone teased me and called me Fugly and I believed them. Now I don't really care what others think or say. I still think at times that I am not pretty and my kids and husband hit me and say you are pretty. My kids even tell me that there friends tell them your Mom is really pretty. So when I look at my self in the Mirror I tell myself that I am. That gives me confedence.when no one else will. Now when I see some of those people from school that didn't want to talk to me or called me names they tell me how nice I look. I went to a bar last year with some friends (which I never do) and I had 4 guys hit on me. I felt good about that. Not used to it of course. One of the guys was a school mate and I didn't even know who he was until he introduced himself.
What I am trying to say is don't listen to all the snide comments others are saying they are just jellious of who and what you are. eccept who you are in the body you have. Start looking up and look at people in the face and smile you will get a smile back, walk with confedence. Be proud of who you are and let others see that. You are not here to please everyone else you are here to please yourself. If people look at you look back and smile or say hi. They will smile or say hi back that makes you feel good to now you made there day because you smiled at them and you feel better because they smiled back. Maybe they feel the same way you do. You never know. You are a beautiful person just for asking for help and who knows you may of helped someone else out because they read this forum. There is nothing wrong with you, you just don't see yourself as others see you and society has alot to do with it. We are trained to think one way and we all believe what we read and what we don't see. Yes don't see! So make some changes on your end and have your head held high because you are you and not everyone else!!! And that is beautiful on it's own.

Answer 8

That is sad. You need to find worth in yourself! I bet that your are a pretty girl, but your eyes are clouded by your low self esteem. Don't be so hard on yourself. Go make a list of at least 10 reasons why you are great!! Ask your mom if you can't think of 10. Moms see your heart.

Answer 9

Knock it off with the dieting crap. You're an anorexic in the making. You have all the signs, especially low esteem. Try being concerned with something or someone else instead of being obsessed about yourself. I hear echos of my daughter 20 years ago, almost word for word. She almost ruined her life. Get some help now before its too late.

Answer 10

every body is beautiful to me I never jugde a book by a cover. and you have to have confidence in your self and see the inner beauty in your self. because the more you have pide in yourself the more you will be loved for who you are if you down yourself ever time and ever one sees it then they think they have the right. I beleive you are a beautiful person even if I can't see you and don't diet because all it will do is harm you and lower your self esteem.believe me I know