I'm sixteen, i have a good personality, i'm tolerant, i'm descent looking, i have morderate long hair, i'm a drummer, i have friends, but most of all...i'm not full of my self in any way.
but i still cannot get a good girlfriend..... :(
is it because girls like ***holes or is it because of somthing else?
2007-01-15 16:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Brian is weird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately some girls are like that. But maybe you aren't looking hard enough. Whats your definition of a good girlfriend? If its looks, then of course its gonna be hard. I hope you're looking for someone who is smart and has a great personality. Sooner or later it shall come to happen. No need to be in a hurry right? Besides you sound like a great guy, dont change the way you are. Best of luck dude ☺
2007-01-15 16:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Nemyss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Brian, Don't get discouraged, I'm a much older woman who when in high school was never asked out. I had 1 good bf or so I thought then found out he was cheating with my then best friend. I was cute, built, intelligient and friendly, kind, caring and I wasnt full of myself in anyway either. I think that when you are meant to be with someone it will happen. If you stop looking for someone that is when they will usually find you. I finally did find someone when I was almost 30, and believe me I had a lot of relationships before that, all okay but I didnt find the right guy. It just wasnt my time. Enjoy your life, have friends, someone special will come into your life when its your time, trust me it will be worth the wait. And by the way girls dont like assholes but unfortunately sometimes thats what we end up with. I myself would rather have a good guy whose a little bit bad then a bad guy whose a little bit good. Stop looking for a gf, when you least expect it the good girl will find you! slp
2007-01-15 18:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by SHEILA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could answer that question. I am in the same boat as you are I am 27 beautiful, a professional, has my own place and own stuff and I cannot seem to find anyone decent. I think I have a good personality. I get along with people. So what is it?
2007-01-15 16:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you don't share the same interests that the girls you're into are. Try a different type of girl. One you normally wouldn't think is your type. Then I bet you'll find more faithful chicks that really dig drummers!
2007-01-15 16:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Barlow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls are attracted to "bad boys" when they are 16. Whatever you do, don't become one of them... It sounds like you're a really great guy, and I know you probably don't want to hear a word of this, but you have to be patient; girls WILL notice you for your maturity and the fact that you're not egotistical. Keep drumming - boys who can play drums are totally hot to young girls. Stay true to yourself too. They'll come around.
2007-01-15 16:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by trailangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most, but not all, 16 yr old girls are fickle...play hard to get, but not impersonal, and you'll have them eating out of your hand
2007-01-15 16:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by EvelynMine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will ,it took me 5 yrs, to find a wonderful boyfreind good things come to those that wait
2007-01-15 16:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be coming on too intense, or you are blind and missing someone who is trying to signal you. Bumped into anyone lately?
2007-01-15 16:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, girls like ***holes for some reason. I know how you feel buddy
2007-01-15 16:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋