i told her i dont think he will anytime soon. he just got out of a bad marriage a few years before. she said if he doesnt soon, she's calling it quits. i dont agree with her. what do you think?
2007-01-15
15:50:38
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BUTTERFLY
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oops, i spelled poop instead of pop! how funny! yeah, thats what i told her. he's not ready yet. she's 29 and really likes this guy. its always been her dream to get married and start a family. i guess she feels she's not getting any younger.
i hope it works out for them is all i can say.
2007-01-15
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if she stated dating him knowing he just got out of a bad marriage then she shouldve been prepared for this.... its only been one year, if five years pass then tell her she can leave, or even three.... but she should know him well enough to understand why he doesnt wanna jump right into another marriage.... i think its smart to wait, many men jump right in again hoping itll happen right this time..... that fails too... have they ever even discussed marriage?? if hes open to the subject then he hasnt given up completly, and she needs to have patience...
2007-01-15 16:07:46
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answered by hockeygurl 2
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Oh jeez... tell her to grow up!! LOL.
No seriously, why would you want to spoil a perfectly great relationship just because he doesn't say, "will you marry me?" Does marriage really mean you love someone more?
It's like this... why can't she just enjoy the relationship for what it is and not pressure the guy into marriage? I mean, come on! It's only been ONE YEAR! And seriously, if she pressures him too hard, he may say, "Look, you don't value the relationship, you're only trying to marry me, and I think it's ridiculous that all you want is a ring to show off." And he may leave her....
Marriage really isn't something that's going to prove the love between them. Tell her to relax, enjoy the moments they have together, and just chill already. He'll be more likely to stay with her anyway if she just shows that she's more interested in HIM and the relationship than a frickin' ring on her hand and signed piece of paper..........
Good luck!
2007-01-16 00:01:15
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answered by Bttrflai 3
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I dont think she should call it quits because if i just got out of a bad marriage i know that i would not want to get married for a while give the guy a break.
2007-01-16 00:30:29
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answered by Shelby N 4
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If they've only been dating a year she should wait. He just had a marriage fall through chances are hes not ready to commit completely yet. He just wants to see if shes the right one indefinetly. Why make another heartwrenching mistake?
2007-01-15 23:58:06
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answered by KT! 4
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What's her hurry?
Maybe she is feeling insecure or something, but lots of people don't just jump right back into marriage after a bad one. It is just a hurdle he has to get over and he will in time.
2007-01-15 23:58:41
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answered by Gnome 6
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i think that she need to talk to him about how she feel if she want
to get marry and he not ready for this. then she has to make a
choice to stay and go. but time will only tell if he want to be]
with her. but commuication is the best thing for them. he may
feel the same but as you stated he just got out out a marriage
so he may not be ready to jump right in to another one.
2007-01-15 23:56:40
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answered by luckystar 6
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I totally agree with her. She could waste years waiting for him to make up his mind. If he doesn't know in a year's time, he never will. She should move on.
2007-01-15 23:55:06
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answered by notyou311 7
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