theres this really cute guy that likes me. and i don't understand. i'm really ugly and i know that for a fact. i don't have many friends, and i'm extremely shy. but he really likes me like i have over 200 text messeges from him, i'm the first girl on his top friends on myspace. he flirts with me a lot and he told me he likes me. so i kno he really does.. i have a sense of humor but my personality isnt that great either i don't talk much. he has a whole bunch of friends and everything. i don't get it.
2007-01-15 15:40:50 · 50 answers · asked by <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know him just off of myspace, he goes to my school.
2007-01-15 15:48:17 · update #1
i would have to say that means you're not as ugly as you claim to be. its just an insecurity that comes with being your age. it also means that he is not a shallow puss-hound that most adolescent males are at that age. it means that he's interested in you and finds your personality as well as your looks intriguing. Why question it? Why not just go for it and see how it works out? Good luck! Go with it!
2007-01-15 15:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ah.... what makes you think you're ugly?
You sound a little paranoid. Are you afraid this is some elaborate joke you are being set up for? Do you feel like he is using you, maybe for something else?
For someone who says their personality isn't that great, you do actually have a nice sociable tone to your writing. Even though the world is full of vain, petty people, there do exist people who love other qualities in their partner other than attractiveness. Some guys love an intelligent girl. Some guys love a funny girl. Some guys love a compassionate girl etc. The list goes on.
I think you need to tell us more about yourself and more about him before we can give you a decent opinion of the situation.
... and until then, stop putting yourself down. Some of the most beautiful women in the world grew up believing they were unattractive. There's always time to be a swan :-)
2007-01-15 15:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hunny evidently your not ugly, though you may feel that way inside this person doesn't see that. You remind me of myself when I was in highschool I thought the same thing I didn't have many friends and guys... yeah right but when the cutest guy in the entire school came to me and asked me out I thought it was a prank when actually he really liked me see. When you go through alot in life you begin to see the world in the eyes of negativity and when that happens things are not allways what they seem to be really your beautiful and there's always someone for everyone out here so maybe your being too hard on yourself you probably don't even realize how many girls are jealouse of you and that's the problem I had maybe that's why you don't have any friends I didn't find out why I didn't have friends until long after high school someone from school actually admitted they were jealouse of me in high school "go figure" and I thought it was because I was ugly when actually I was just too cute
2007-01-15 15:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Either this guy is a jerk and is playing with your emotions or he is like most "real" men that see that beauty is truly found within. A real man will see that in the long run the beauty will not hold up and the personalilty of a person is what has the long term staying power.
If you don't know this guy on a personal, seen him in person out in public way then don't bank too much on his advances.
Don't be reckless with other peoples hearts and don't put up with people that are reckless with yours.
Good luck.
2007-01-15 15:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by woodbutcher21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! Beauty is just a perception. Maybe he thinks he is ugly and that you are a goddess! Unless he is slimy and there is reason not to trust him, enjoy the attention of one you find to be a hottie! Life is short! Enjoy the beauty it brings you!
One word of caution. Is this a friend that you met via the internet or have you actually met him? I would be wary of someone you haven't actually met- especially if you are a younger girl- then use extreme caution. He might be grooming you for his own sick purposes and that has nothing to do with what you look like or who you are. He might see a girl who doesn't have much self-esteem and might be preying on you. If that is the case, please be careful!
2007-01-15 15:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people classify the following types as those without personality : The shy, ugly, reserve, the introverted ....
and those with personality, they classify: The beautiful, the talkative, the bold.......
So, the ugly girl has no personality! This can be an awful mistake.The way how some people classify others as having personality, and those with-out can be very misleading. Also not every-one has the charisma, and you do not have to be pretty to possess it. By the way, you should take it as a compliment that this guy wants to be your friend.
2007-01-15 16:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by skeetejacquelinelightersnumber7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlie, the main thing that attracts me to a man is his humor, then his personality. Physical looks are only 50% of what makes a man attractive to me. I'm not conceited, but I've been told that I'm a beautiful woman and could have any man that I want. Having said that, beauty or handsomeness is NOT important to me. The humor and personality are the FIRST things I notice on a man. So he may really really like you. Go for it.
2007-01-15 15:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, aren't you over your limits today? Hot guys like "ugly" girls (or those society doesn't see as the definition of "hot" today) because they have been on the other end of it. They see how easy it is to get by on your looks and the way people treat you differently because they are all about the surface and don't care to get inside of the human bean. Opposites attract? Yin-yang? Be happy. Stop beating yourself up.
2007-01-15 15:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He obviously sees something in you; something even you yourself can't see. I say ask him why exactly he likes you. You might be surprised by the answer.
Whatever his reason is, don't think he's not telling you the truth. Attraction can be from many things and it's not always because of looks.
2007-01-15 15:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Digital Haruspex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
providing that you ugly it's probably because everyone has their own preferences. Sometimes I feel attracted to ugly girls for unexplained reasons. This guy might think you're drop dead gorgeous. I'd stop complaining and ask him out already!
2007-01-15 15:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Stewie122343 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately not all guys are nice. so i'm not going to sugar coat it there's a big possibility he's doing it because it's some sort of bet. or him and his friends get a kick outta it and are just waiting to see what you do so that he can make a fool of you. now i hope for your sake i'm wrong. but if you don't really know him personally how can you trust what he says.
2007-01-15 15:48:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋