He flirts with me alot, We hang out alot now, and I think He misses me because alot of peaple have told me that he probably misses me. 2 months ago i asked him if he would probably ever want me back, he said no, but now he really does act like he's missing alot. he hugs me and just the other night i thought he was gonna kiss me, today he grabbed my hand, please help me to get him back?
2007-01-15 15:38:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a ex for a reason leave it alone
2007-01-15 15:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that he is only keeping you around to fall back on. HE said with his own mouth he would not take you back accept this answer and move on. Right now he is all up in your mix and in your face to make sure no other guy is getting what he no longer wants or has. He does not want to see you with no one else so he is stringing you along to get you to think that he wants you back when he doesn't. He don't wanna see you happy with no one else kick him to the curb and go find you a guy who will appreciate you for the person that you are. You don't need him you can and deserve way better than he will ever be. Don't let him play on your emotions and hold you back from finding someone who wll treat you right. If he does not want you he does not want you there is nothing you can do to get him back that is a decision that he has to make. Go out find you another guy put all your attention into this new guy and watch how he wanna really try to holla at you and then when you leave them alone he will go back to being the same way just do it and see how he will respond. Stop hanging out with him and invest your time in someone else and see what happens he will either ask you back or leave you alone this will really show you the truth about what he really wanted from you.
2007-01-15 23:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you can't get him back unless hes willing. All you can really do is tell him your feelings. Do you want him back? Tell him honestly how you feel. Actions speak louder than words in a lot of situations. Its seems though by his actions he does, but maybe hes just not ready to commit again. Give him time, but really, don't let him lead you on.
Theres no real way to help you unless you have a heart to heart with your ex. He seems to be attracted to you, but again, Im not sure why you broke up to begin with.
Theres an old saying that if you let him go and he comes back to you then its meant to be. Good luck and I hope things work out
2007-01-15 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by elena_398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses you because he misses having a girlfriend. He misses the triumphant feeling of being able to boast aound talking about his girlfriend. He misses the feeling of having a relationship. Don't listen to anything he says, his 'promises' and feelings are SO fake he knows you'll fall for it. So move on, don't fall into his trap again. You didn't break up with him for no reason. wellllll theres always someone better out there, so good luck =)
2007-01-15 23:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like what he wants is to play you. This is a little secret that the guys keep to themselves: nothing is easier to play than an infatuated girl!
Think about the reasons why your relationship broke up. Would you want to go back to that?
If you are serious about getting back together, ask him again under serious circumstances, in any case don't give it up easily! It will bring out his true intentions.
2007-01-15 23:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Marc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd ask him again if he's trying to get back together. If not, then he needs to stop flirting, stop holding your hand, and not kiss you. If he's playing you, that's not nice, and not sure why you'd want to be with someone who acts that way. A relationship needs good communication. So, don't play games. Find out what's going on for sure.
Good luck.
2007-01-15 23:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby you have to let things run there course and dont be pushy because you ll wind up with your feelings hurt but at the same time dont allow him to send you mixed signals ask him what is it that he wants and tell him what you want and if the thing you both want are different than you know you have to let this thing burn sweetie okay good luck to you and i hope it works out in your favor
2007-01-15 23:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by yousexythangyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to remember why he is an "EX" before you decide you want him back! If you started with a new group of friends and began doing things outside his circle, you may find out that there is someone better for you.
2007-01-15 23:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls 4 times out of 5 and be ridiculously vague about what you are up to on the evenings he isn't around. He will be silly with desire. This could backfire depending on your ages.
2007-01-15 23:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by ADubya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the phrase, "Have your cake and eat too?" Sounds like he's hanging on to you because it's comfortable and you're willing to be there for him. Ask yourself what happens if someone better comes along? Don't waste your time, life is too short...move on.
2007-01-15 23:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Julie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on Darlin! He is just playing around, probably horny)if he was serious he would have told you yes two months ago. Go find another guy. If he really wants you he will make up his mind and be clear about it then, and you wont have to play this guessing game.
2007-01-15 23:42:49 · answer #11 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋