ok so heres my story, sry if theses alot of shortened words, im doing this off my fone lol, i am in love with this girl that i have been friends with nearly all my life. i started getting feelings for her about 2 years ago. right now i am madly in love with her and i have told her the way i feel about her. she doesnt push me away yet she shows no affection for me. we talk everyday for hours but usually online. im really shy around her or when im on the fone. she told me she was upset becuz i dont call her, but i dont know wut to do, when im on the fone with her i dont talk much so its just akward silence. i dont think she likes me like that but i dont really know wut to do, ive tried asking her out but i end ur just standing there. im 17 and shes 15. i am in desperate need of advice
2007-01-15 15:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the potential heart-breaker: are you the guy of her dreams?
2007-01-15 15:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her, this sounds exactly like me and my fiancee now, when he called me he didn't say much so I would just sit there and wonder why in the world he called me. Eventually after about 3 years we got together. I told him you need to call me on a regular basis, he doesn't like the phone and doesn't really talk much but he finally got the clue. He would ask me about my day and pretty much just let me talk to him. Just try, before you call think of some things that you can ask her that are open ended, just make simple conversation. What kind of movies do you like, ect. I am sure that you can figure it out. Just make sure that you don't forget that you also need to participate. As long as you put some effort if she is interested in you she will come around, otherwise just let that part go. You can still be friends. It can work, look at me it's now been going on 3 years that we have been together!
2007-01-15 15:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by nena b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to believe there's a reason why we feel that kind of love. Maybe right now she doesn't feel that way, but you are both still very young. Give yourselves time. Continue to be her friend and do nice things now and then to let her know you care. It's not a race. :)
2007-01-15 15:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u better grow some balls and some confidence. Call her like she wants and ramble to her just like you do over text messaging. U just get nervous. It may help to tell her that and that it is more comfotable for you over the tetxt messaing than on the phone. but also should be asking her out on dates.
2007-01-15 15:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may think she the girl of your dream but she may not be if'
you have told her how you feel and she has not respond to you
in any way thay show you that she feel the same, then it may be
that she may not feel as you do, she may like the fact that you
care for her, but it would be more then that if she really care
it may be time to leave her along.
2007-01-15 15:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you were quite a wind bag on Yahoo answers!!! Just Talk!! ya goof ball!!
2007-01-15 15:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call.
What can it hurt?
You can do it!!!!!
You're a stud!
2007-01-15 15:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by melomego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋