.........believe a guy if he told you he wants to get to know you for you, and is not there just for the sex??? I want TRUTHFUL anwers, girls!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-15 15:37:25 · 55 answers · asked by hagtagg 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for proving my point, girls!! Don't blame ANY of you, for doubting a guy's intentions!!
2007-01-15 15:43:21 · update #1
Rip my friggin' balls off while your at it, why don't ya??? lol Wow, never expected so much hostility!!! ;o) Like I said, I dont blame any of you!!
2007-01-15 15:48:11 · update #2
(Kitty Cat scratching head) This is a tough one.
I can only answer based upon my personal experience.
I feel it would really depend on the guy and what your 'relationship' you have between the two of you. I'm trying to picture some of the guys I know saying this and here is what my smart-*** would think or say...
A. Cool we can be friends
B. Thank GOD, cause I don't want to sleep w/ you.
C. Mmm...didn't we already sleep together. (-lol-) j/k
So, Mr Happy, would I believe? Yes I would. If there is an attraction between to two people things may happen or nothing may happen it's up to each person to make that choice.
2007-01-15 17:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
My experience with men leads me to believe that the "Not just there for sex" line is REALLY just an elaborate pickup line that the most patient of men use.
Don't get me wrong-- you may be real in your feelings but don't forget that most women are like me. They've been hurt, lied to, cheated on, and are now just generally cynical and jaded.
You may tell the truth with this comment but you've got other people's lies and damage to get through. Good luck on her believing it!
I really do wish you the best and I hope you're being honest with both her and yourself.
2007-01-15 15:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by kerrisonr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the type of guy. There are some out there only looking for sex but there are those who honestly wish to settle down with that special someone. So I would have to say if the man is sincere and one can usually tell than yes.
2007-01-15 15:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by jasomsaso 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would depend a lot on how long I had known him before the subject of sex comes up for discussion!!!!!
If it's near the beginning of a relationship,..... why does he feel a need to mention it at all? Hmmmmm - might be a warning sign?..... but then again...... maybe he's been used by fast women, and he feels a need to take things slower?.......
You need more info to paint the complete picture of the relationship.
2007-01-15 16:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard, because all guys want sex, heck, all women want sex. But i believe there are some guys out there that actually want to get to know a girl for who they are and not just to get into their pants, at least not right away. But i think its hard to find that type of guy.
2007-01-15 15:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, why cause we have heard many lines like this before. We can only rely on your actions, they will tell us alot about you. We will in our mind wanna believe this line but deep down inside we will be thinking otherwise. We want show that we are not believeing you but we will have our doubts. One real way that we will believe this line is all based on your actions.
2007-01-15 15:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'ld believe you but i would be looking more at how you treat me vs what you tell me cause you could say you want to be with me and you'll treat me right and i'm the only girl for you but if i see you all over a bunch of other gils i'm not gonna waste my time just be genuwine but as far as my answer goes for me it's all about innocent until proven guilty i'll believe you and trust you till u give me a reason not to
2007-01-16 15:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by amuch2much 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are really people who are true about what they say. O course there is always the sex thing down the road after the get to no you for who you are. Let's face it we are all only human!!!
2007-01-15 15:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smart (true ladies) would love it! Unfortunately many women are so mixed up these days. Media tells them to be slutty and always be sexy etc. Many women have a problem knowing their true selves themselves let alone letting the guy get to know them. I say look for the smart (true ladies). you will be happier...and we are out there.
2007-01-15 15:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut out the sex if you are currently engaged in it and see if he is still interested. I went back and forth on wanting to have sex with my ex and he ended up leaving me in the end-I think he just used me for it.
So if you aren't having sex with him-don't start, make him wait....make them wonder more :-)
2007-01-15 15:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by Connie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋