i never suspect my husband,but i get angry whenever he talks more jovial with his sister whom at my same age.B'coz of this i cant concentrate on my work.......also i feel ashamed to ask with my husband...he might mistake me..............how could i overcome with this problem?is my thoughts wrong?Any of wives got this exp?
2007-01-15 14:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
If you're worried about him having an affair with his sister.. although not impossible... HIGHLY unlikely!!! Remember, this is a person that he has know for most of his life... I have 4 brothers, and joke around with them on occasion.... just being goofy.
2007-01-15 14:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by igiveall2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me rephrase your question. You are the wife, but your husband appears more happy and relaxed (joking around and acting happy) when he is talking with his sister who is your age than when he is with you?
You are therefore jealous of his sister?
You have to ask yourself this. WHy are you not fun to be with? Were you ALWAYS not easy going and exciting company?
Maybe you should change a few things in your relationship with your husband.
1. Do not scold him all the time. He will resent you. You are not his mother.
2. Be good to yourself and make yourself pretty and attractive. It helps your self esteem and makes you more confident. He will like being seen with you.
3. Dont be a martyr by working too long and neglecting him. because money can always be earned but relationships remain DEAD if you let them die. He needs your company.
That rule is the same for him too. He has to pay attention to your needs for company and acknowlegment..
4. Just because you are married doesnt mean you can now take him for granted and vice versa. Work on making each other happy and feel secure in the relationship. Dont make him feel sorry that he got married. Many men feel like that when they find out its all work work work.
Let go of the jealousies because they are destructive. Build a family to include his family ie his brothers and sisters.
2007-01-15 23:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just very close as they grew up together some people are very close to their siblings, there is probably an underlying problem that can be resolved go talk to a therapist about this they can help you figure out the cause of this and how to work through it and eliminate the problem.
2007-01-16 06:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're suffering. Perhaps you're jealous of the attention he gives his sister and wish it were you, not her. Does that make you feel insecure of his feeling for you? I hope you talk to a counselor as it seems you've got some self-esteem issues to deal with. (Self-esteem issues are not uncommon.) Hope things improve for you soon.
2007-01-15 22:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by wolfsong1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can get pretty annoying when my hubby talks to his sis, howeve I wouldn't get all excited about it, after all their sisters their from the same mother, have the same blood and they're supposed to love each other like sisters & brothers!
2007-01-15 22:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋